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Monday 19 January 2015

Dear LIB readers; My ex-boyfriend is mad at me because I'm about to marry his uncle

Choi. Lol. From a female LIB reader
I had been in an off and on relationship for nearly eight years, though we were more off than on. There were times I tried to move on but I always allowed my emotions to draw me back since I loved the guy in question to a fault. I can't begin to narrate all the things he put me through, he can be  very arrogant and so full of himself yet I would excitedly run back into his arms whenever he chose to open them to me again.
Sometime in the middle of last year, I traveled for his younger sister's  marriage. She's a close friend of mine too. I had thought that would be an opportunity to reconcile with my man (we were in one of our off sessions then) but that didn't happen. Instead I met with the biggest disappointment and embarrassment of my life. My guy formed too busy and was not ready to give me any attention. All through my stay in their family house, he made extra effort to avoid any form of contact with me so I let him be.

Anyway, something else happened during my stay. His maternal uncle (not an old man please, but a young adorable guy in his late thirties) became interested in me. We exchanged contacts, became friends right away and later started a relationship.

Now he has asked me to marry him and of course I said yes! I have since told him about his nephew and I.

However, my head ache now is that my ex and his sister are accusing me of trying to ruin the relationship between them and their uncle, my bae..😁. They've been sending me text messages and throwing shades at me on social networks. It's really heartbreaking as most of the things they post are demeaning. Was I wrong in accepting to marry him? Should I have said no? I am not going back on the wedding which has been fixed for Easter, but I want to be convinced that I'm not treacherous as they both said I am.

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Unknown said...

It's better now. He MUST respect you as his uncle's wife.
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Davido's driver said...

U don't know ur boundaries. Hoeloshi


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Unknown said...

Whatever You See, Face It Dear... Put Yourself In there Shoes..
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Unknown said...

U need conviction that you're at the right path? Keep waiting..

Just imaginning how you'd face them all your life

Anonymous said...

Girl abeg forget them & marry your guy jare

Anonymous said...

Dear Poster, carry on with the wedding! With Joy in your heart sef. If there's no rule(against) or abomination about sleeping with nephew and uncle( that's if you slept with your ex-boyfriend) pls go on. He had a good thing and he lost it! Now he is crying wolf! Mstchew! Abeg carry go!

Unknown said...

Ewo dats a sin

Unknown said...

Chai! Omg! Lol...

Unknown said...

It's your happiness that is most important. Don't mind what they say or do.
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Unknown said...

He should be mad at u more tbh

Unknown said...

Why re U doing family circle......Why not find love somewhere else.........d sista is ur frnd.....his broda was ur ex nd now is uncle wanna be ur husband.....Its just too somehow.....





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Ade said...

Please if you're happy with him and he loves you back, go on with your marriage and put those haters into prayers. Life must go on na...BTW Linda I'm still waiting for your story because most of your posts inspire me...well, not to eggplants and d unnecessary amebos#lol

Unknown said...

Follow your heart ♥ girlfriend!

Cute G said...

So what's the point seeking our opinion when you're not going back on your decision? Please keep going front.

Bella j said...

Don't mind dem, do your thing gal..

Bella j said...

Don't mind dem, do your thing gal..

Anonymous said...

He should had clapped for you ni?

Anonymous said...

Are they Mad! Young woman good men are scarce! Scarce! It's hard to find someone that won't waste your 8 years. Your ex is an idiot and he is just beginning to realise it.

Unknown said...

Carry on, nothing do you


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xquisite said...

U re meant 4 d uncle, datin d nephew was a mistake in ur past #winks. God bless ur union no matter wat anybody say. Go wit d man who cherish and knw ur worth

Unknown said...

My dear! Continue wit ur marriage plan! Congt to u guys! Bt I hope d uncle is nt a married man!

the Banku said...

My sister biko go ahead.it is said that you dont know the value of what you have till you lose it.its too late for your ex and it has hit him in the face.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmm...... jus figure it out

CHERRY said...

Mtchew his uncle are u sick? Yea u must be sick!

Ike Ani said...

This na serious love issue. That means you don't really love the uncle. Why the deceitful I do? www.ikeani.blogspot.com

Unknown said...

My dear move on. You ain't at fault.

Anonymous said...

Am sure the question is for the gods .

GALORE said...

You should have said no...


But is your choice!!!!

Why date two people in the same family



@Galore

Unknown said...

They should all go to hell go ahead an married their uncle if he so much love u

Anonymous said...

babe carry on....some guys don't learn until someone that knows your worth take you away....go ahead with the wedding ....also tell ur man what his nephew and niece are doing...let him deal with them

Unknown said...

Live your life

Anonymous said...

How does our opinion affect the decision u have taken? Abeg rest

Unknown said...

DEAR EDIOT,IF YOUR EX CAN PAY ME,I CAN HELP HIM KILL YOU.YOU MUST HAVE BEING DATING HIM WHILE YOU WERE ON WITH YOUR EX....AKA....BRAWLING

CHERRY said...

His uncle are u sick? Yea u must be sick!

Unknown said...

Firstly, u have to come out clean wit ur fiance, tell him everything that transpired between u & his nephew. God will take care of d rest. Best of luck.


@Sophia Stephen

Anonymous said...

Please go ahead with the wedding. I've learned that opportunity is never lost, someone will eventually take the one you missed.

He sees you as a poison and someone sees you as his BREAD, nothing do you my sister. Their action is all about jealousy and guilty conscience.

Anonymous said...

You did nothing wrong in accepting to marry him. You told the uncle about your relationship with his nephew and he didn't mind; if you both love each other, go for it girl.

Unknown said...

A man that kept on ignoring you like a plague When u loved n wanted him back. God prepared something bigger and better 4 u. As long as he has the fear of God in him,cares,loves and respects u pls marry him over and over again. You ain't a traitor they are. GBAM!

Unknown said...

Abeg carry go nothing do you. You've been with him 4 eight years dats enuf tym 4 anyone to make a firm decision & stand by it, if it az not worked with him 4 eight den move on. Abeg tym waits 4 no one especially d female folks. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Abeg carry go nothing do you. You've been with him 4 eight years dats enuf tym 4 anyone to make a firm decision & stand by it, if it az not worked with him 4 eight den move on. Abeg tym waits 4 no one especially d female folks. Linda take note!

Maye73 said...

My dear please go ahead with the wedding,you're a woman and can't afford to waste much time,abeg ignore them.

Unknown said...

Abeg carry go nothing do you. You've been with him 4 eight years dats enuf tym 4 anyone to make a firm decision & stand by it, if it az not worked with him 4 eight den move on. Abeg tym waits 4 no one especially d female folks. Linda take note!

SANDRA said...

Kikikikikik I love dis

www.glowyshoes.com said...

ov cos he has to be angry..i think hez just been jealous..but life goes on..

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nicky Skimpy said...

Wooow, sounds weird, but girl u followed ur heart which is the most important thing. Be ready for the worst though

Unknown said...

You've done nothg wrong jare. Carry on wit the wedding. Solider go solider come, barrack remain the same.

Unknown said...

Let him go and sleep! Enemy of progress.

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Slap urself 2tyms den u get d answer.

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

Dnt mind dem o, enemy of progress, as long as Ʊ luv ur man and he loves Ʊ, and his family accepts Ʊ, Ʊ dnt av a p o, off and on for 8yrs and his sister is getting married, its so obvious they dnt want ur happiness, pls try ur best and avoid them and be very prayerful cos that ur guy is vry wicked... Pls, pray well o, make dem no put sand sand 4 ur garri o.. All is well..

Mz Lolo... said...

I dont support d idea of getting married to ur bf's uncle

Unknown said...

Let him go and sleep! Enemy of progress

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Relationship matter can tier me o!

Unknown said...

Hmmmm,but u get mind sha oo,they should let u be,some1 else is interested in you

Anonymous said...

abeg contn with ur marriage plan o dnt mind dem. Nan so now, person wey no appreciate wetin in get must loose am. @funmimy

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

Dnt mind dem o, enemy of progress, as long as Ʊ luv ur man and he loves Ʊ, and his family accepts Ʊ, Ʊ dnt av a p o, off and on for 8yrs and his sister is getting married, its so obvious they dnt want ur happiness, pls try ur best and avoid them and be very prayerful cos that ur guy is vry wicked... Pls, pray well o, make dem no put sand sand 4 ur garri o.. All is well..

eka said...

my dear, ignore them both.....that`s men 4 u, when u r with them, they don`t know your worth and when u leave, u become d treacherous one. If u are happy with your new man and all previous grounds are known, then go ahead.............
Finally, no union on this earth is wholly supported by everybody, just make sure u r in it for the right reasons. Good-luck.......

Bianca Bruno said...

You are not treacherous hun
Your ex and his sister are immature rabbits.
Send them IV

Anonymous said...

Girlfriend you made a mistake by accepting him.you will nt enjoy your marriage if you take that step.

Anonymous said...

You are a heartless bastard

Unknown said...

Life is too short! Plz do wat makes you happy.

Anonymous said...

You are not dear!!! Marry the uncle if you love him!!! Damn your ex, idiot ex!!! What is ex!? Ex is rubbish!!!

Pretty Raya said...

Shuuu abeg forget them! They r all crazy! What's the guyz problem sef, him want y he carry am go mkt. He doesn't want u n doesn't want u to be happy that's evil. Gurl move on with ur life and forget them jare

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Chile, live your life and be happy. the guy clearly didn't want you then, so why he mad now?
enemies of progress

beautiful said...

Jesus!see sentimental people o...don't mind dem mbok!go ahead n marry d sweet guy.since mr Ego feels u're not gud enuf 4 him.and 4 d insults they're throwing,dust 'em off.

Unknown said...

like seriously who does that.
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Unknown said...

B4 shuld dey be happy with you?

Toronto Finest said...

Bitch look elsewhere

Yinka said...

Tell them to go hug a live transformers.



Meanwhile, I still have a crush on #lauraikeji

Megoli said...

Huh?linda nwa ikeji keije....

Unknown said...

Babe, carry on with your plans. When the wedding finally happens, they'll take a chill pill and let you be.



Busy Fingers.

mz phumike said...

U not. Dey no wnt mk u marry? U wld surely marry 1 day nw bt marryn d uncle is some how bt we in d advance world anitin cn appen #wink#

Anonymous said...

I will strongly disagree with the marriage. Please there are great guys out there.
Marrying that uncle is like creating issues for yourself. In fact, you shouldn't have agree to date the uncle to begin. Where is your Pride? PLEASE don't do it

Onyx's Girlfriend (he isn't gay pls) said...

You are good to go jare, notin do you. #lindagiveawayonmymind

Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

Yawa dey ohhh

Anonymous said...

Congratulations darling, you have met the person God kept for you don't be discouraged. Good luck

NENEAFRICA said...

Nne Uve already made up your mind!.. what more do u need?

Unknown said...

Choice differs but I wouldn't If I were in your shoes! It seems awkward

Unknown said...

Wow!... u tried to cop wit all those shit from ur X n now u'v moved on n cin a true love though his uncle, he has collided wit his Sis dat is already married to spoil ur joy! Hmmm Datz a serious one. Hope u'v told ur man (der uncle) abt wot dey are putting up!? Please do if not n b prayerful love. Everyfin will sort out fine! Have faith...

Anonymous said...

You've done nothing wrong. With time they will get use to the fact that you've moved on.so u should stay back and 1 guy will keep shagging and trashing you.biko HML in advance

Unknown said...

Don't mind them joor. Has far as the new man loves and respect you; and you are also at peace when you with him. Don't allow anyone determine your happiness.. Forget about your ex and his sister. They will soon get use to the situation...

Ochuko Arhiakpore said...

Whatever rocks ur boat is Good for you.it is ur future baby girl.

GEJ till 2019

!! BIG BROTHER SAYS SO !!

Unknown said...

If this is real and you love the guy,please go ahead ther's nothing bad since you guys were not married. Congrats in advance.

Unknown said...

My dear go on ur marriage arrangement,infact your vry lucy,dat guy is not meant for u.congrt my dear.......... God just use him to connect u to ur bone.

Apples ( SDKBlog Shrink) said...

You shouldn't care about what they say, if you love this man go ahead and forget them...they don't matter,its your life biko!

ukbliss said...

Go girl, ur doing the thing God punish satan

Unknown said...

I don't think ua wrong with ur decision but you have to tell ur to be husband everything nd take it to God too!

ary said...

Where you made the mistake is that you didn't let enough time drift between your on and off relationship before moving on to the UNCLE. I fear you might have started bad blood between the 2 men, look at the bigger picture even though your ex deserves all the pain in the world. Anyway it is a maternal uncle so the repercussions might not be that great. Congratulations to both of you.

Unknown said...

Totally wrong, what were u xpecting frm him and his sister?hugs and pay on d back?

Daddy's Girl said...

No u r not! Pls go ahead wt ur plans

Unknown said...

Wen u need d guy,he was nt dere for u,now his uncle want to marry u,he is now angry..my dear go ahead and marry his uncle...as far as u have told him (d uncle) about his nephew ,go ahead n marry him..

Unknown said...

You did what you had to do, he wasn't serious and now u re happy, he wants to pull u back to himself, carry go my dear

Unknown said...

You did what you had to do, he wasn't serious and now u re happy, he wants to pull u back to himself, carry go my dear

KENKY said...

He is jealous someone found a jewel in d trash he took for granted! This is d bezt karma next revenge! Don't ever back down! You did not wrong! What he took for granted another valued!.......

Tendency oby said...

If u really love that uncle n u notice that man love u too gal carry on with ur plan.

Anonymous said...

Lol it's just paining them..go 'head girl..just tell their uncle and u too be careful cos they may try to ruin your relationship.. I see nothing treacherous in what u did

Anonymous said...

They should both piss off! Especially the ex-boyfie! Why aren't they going after their "uncle"? Abeg Abeg Abeg....make yourself happy!

Anonymous said...

Hmm this 1 get as e be ooooo. Lol, I wouldn't put myself in this. Situation at allllll. It's just too complicated.

Unknown said...

Go on with your wedding plans, just ignore your ex and his siblings

Anonymous said...

Me I findd nothing wrong with it ooooo, u dated ur x serve as the way God want you to meet ur hubby, continue with the weeding if only u can avoid temptation when u see him.

Anonymous said...

Odiegwu

Anonymous said...

Lol only you have smashed both uncle and nephew! Na wa o...you sef answer your own question.

Miss.EG said...

My dear. Wishing you a Happy Married Life jare. You will be most stupid to even listen to them. You did the right thing. May God bless your union. Congratulations.

Unknown said...

You are not being treacherous my dear.. pray and go ahead

Unknown said...

Go ahead and marry ur man jor. But we for like hear d man side of d saga

Anonymous said...

My dear marry nd b happy.i wnt 2 post a story on linda's blog how do I go about it

BUGATTI said...

My dear go on and marry him jare.ur ex is not serious and don't let anyone stop u from being happy

Unknown said...

My sista biko marry ur man!!! ur time wasting boyfriend and his sista have done their job; to lead u to ur husband... marry him and don't even think twice abt it

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Can u imagine the devil asking if she's wicked, chai girls and marriage sha...

Unknown said...

Carry on girl. You are not treacherous. ..He will learn to deal with it. So long as his uncle doesn't give a damn I have are good to go

NancyCherishNancy said...

Baby fire dey go.....as he no send you,better person come send you.....congrats babe

Unknown said...

Babe carry on joor. They are all enemies of goid progress.

Anonymous said...

Ha! See gobe! I had a similar experience,but was too scared to tell d uncle,nd his nephew whom I dated/was more of a constant fling,knew,i just culdnt go on,it was alrdy a too dirty for me to give in to marriage wiv d uncle,so my dear,hmmmmm...ur playin dirty

Unknown said...

Move on but be careful of them. LIB EMPIRE

Unknown said...

Hmmm, this your case is critical. But I feel you have your life and they have theirs, they should learn to deal with what ever is making them feel uncomfortable about you marrying his uncle. Some people sef, you no serious now another person serious with the girl you da vex. Na wa oo




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Anonymous said...

My dear you are not wrong, some guys can be have like assholes , so he cares and decided to be putting you through all the mess and stress and now some one that found you worthy has been a man about the whole situation to make you happy and his telling you trash, my dear happy married life in advance. The sister should also meet a man that would treat her like her brother did to you and let's see if she would think twice

Dotted lines said...

Go n marry......dey r crazy

ABEE... said...

Biko Ride on girl...Relationship is NOT a dettol advert, if he did not take care of you, someone else will....Mtcheeeeeeeww

Unknown said...

Babe u have done notin wrong.d uncle knws ur worth and went 4 it.dey r family dey wuld settle it, live wiv it and get over it

Unknown said...

Hahahahah! Babe dt serves d mumu guy right, carry go with ur marriage abeg, men doesn't knw wt d hv untill d loose it, y e dey pain am now? Plsss if na me I go happy self he shuld fall inside river Niger for all I care, pls ignore d useless guy an move on. Ds destiny for u.just be sure his uncle loves u an can stand for u in all things becos d might cook up lies against u, just be vry careful an avoid ur ex an his sis. All d best darl

Unknown said...

Gal, congratulations ohhh dnt fall for that boy he wasnt ready to make an honest woman out of you so? if you are indeed sure you love this man you about to marry then marry him.Good luck

Anonymous said...

Nigga wnts 2 eat his cake and have it,no way! Marry the uncle if you love him hon,fuck his sis nd him..The sis doesn't want u2 marry ni shebi she has marry

Anonymous said...

None of his business. Let him go gaga if he wishes. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#

Unknown said...

This is serious, honestly if it was d other way arnd u'd be mad, but dat dnt mean u shld not accept, afterall ur ex was not rilly interested according to dis post

Her Royal Freshness said...

You're free to marry is father and make him your stepson. Nne you're not wrong

Unknown said...

YOUR EX IS JEALOUS! LEAVE THAT MOMO IN THE PAST AND ENJOY YOUR BAE. MAKE THEM NO PUT SAND SAND FOR YOUR GARRI!!!!

ije. said...

No hun. You are not treacherous. His disappointment has become your blessing. That's how God works. Enjoy your marriage.

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Babe fuck them, they can never hold back ur joy ok. Marry that man abeg no tym....
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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Anonymous said...

Marry him joor and don't mind them

Unknown said...

My dear u r not o but I hope u r not marrying ur 'bae' as revenge or out of despiration. As for ur ex, he's an idiot. Guys like dat will toy with u forever. Good thing u moved on

Unknown said...

My dear ride on biko. U deserve a better and more caring man. I think u should forget abt ur ex and his sister, they have no good excuse.

Anonymous said...

My dear please go ahead with ur marriage plan. They say u don't know what u have until it's gone. They are only jealous of u.

Thou.Thou said...

Carry on.u r nt treacherous.#lindi change ur profile picshure #:)

Unknown said...

Is the guy and sister that are treacherous. the sister sef is more wicked, were was she when the guy was maltreating you and ignoring you.
Nonsense
My dear move on with ur better bae jare
He doesn't know the value of what he has until he lost it.
The way some girls behave to their brother's girlfriend or wife at times is annoying as if they're not women too and won't marry one day.

arsenal said...

Absolutely not. As long as you are comfortable able the whole thing. If you slept with your ex, don't you feel somehow sleeping with the uncle? As long as you ave told your uncle boo about it and he accepts you then plsss be happy. They shouldn't come to the wedding if they are hurt abegii

Anonymous said...

Nne pls gaan marry

BlackRose said...

the guy is just jealous, he thought no other guy would hit u, pls go on with ur marriage.

Ifedolapo Darlington said...

Carry go joor! The guy wan make u still be her girl toy... U found happiness, go ahead... Its your life not theirs...

Unknown said...

I think u didn't properly end ur relationship wit ur ex before moving on, otherwise, why would he and his sister accuse u of being treacherous

Anonymous said...

Ur happiness first girl....derz notin wrong wit ur decision, dey shud go Fuck demselves. @chidinma

Anonymous said...

Why would you marry the uncle since you loved the other guy to a fault? Okafor's law is real oooooo.

Anonymous said...

Carry go,dont mind the kill joy dem. As long as your boo ain't complaining,na them teeth and tongue go pain.

Unknown said...

that serves him right though.But you shouldn't have accept to marry any of his relatives,you made it clear that it was an on and off relationship,with time He'll come back to you.Even If you'll break up with him and marry someone else it shouldn't be anyone in that family.that's a lesson for him

CELEB said...

Listen to ur heart. If u are ok, fine! If u feel guilty or bad then end it!

Unknown said...

My dear go ahead and marry the guy. Who has time to be running around with an arrogant guy. As long you let his uncle know everything before marriage, don't worry about bro and sis.

Shalom in Nigeria, Amen

Unknown said...

Follow ur heart

Unknown said...

Once ur mind is clear, go ahead pls

Neymar said...

Ride on abeg! Nw he knows ur worth wen he had already lost u. Close ur FB page and open anoda one if need b jare.

Anonymous said...

U are not my dear. Although such a situation as urs doesn't happen often, but that doesn't mean u did anything wrong. Ur ex and his sister must have tried to convince ur Uncle against leaving u but he refused to listen to them. He prolly yells at them or avoids them cuz of d rubbish they are telling him Abt u. I bet that's y they feel u are trying to ruin their relationship with their uncle. Go ahead and get married to a man that loves u enuf to Wanna settle down wit u

Unknown said...

Lmao...my friends always say....If your boyfriend breaks your heart and his father is still young....go after his father , marry him and become his step mom....too bad for the boyfriend sha
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Jerry Banks said...

Babe if u kw he loves u and u love him as much, then u have to move on with d marriage and let the past relationship with is so-called nephew be a story cos he didn't love u for marriage and besides, if even if u guys date each other for ages is not the guarantee the u guys will be husband and wife. So babe continue with ur marriage cos such opportunity might never come again if u miss it just because of ppls prejudices.

Jasmyn said...

My dear go ahead.. forget those bad belle pp..

Thelma Zebbs said...

No! You are not wrong babe. Love happened and that's all that matters. Your ex never really wanted you, his loss I say. He and his sister sounds like low-lifes. The only problemo here is are you truly sure you'll be comfortable seeing ur ex around ur fiance all the time. They are family and you'll be seeing him in all family functions. If you can handle that then happy married life in advance. Make them boil joor

Anonymous said...

Nonsense . You are in a wring right relationship but with a wrong person . Just forget it ..

Anonymous said...

Abeg marry the man Joh! Whose fault is it that your ex is mumu

Unknown said...

Follow ur heart girl. Do what u think is best for u.

Unknown said...

Funny n not funny.

Anonymous said...

No mind the maga. He is annoyed cos you don wise up. God bless your union I jaree

vickenzo2009@yahoo.com said...

Nothing do u jare

Prophetess chimdi said...

Nne biko u are not treacherous. Go on and marry ur bae joor. Thank me later. But don't react negatively on any if their post on social media. Ok

Anonymous said...

You have done nothing wrong! But remember, all things are good but not all things are expedient...
princess

BLAQ said...

My dear I see nothing wrong in what u did, u moved from an uncertain relationship to a more certain one where u now know were u are going. Abeg ignore d siblings and marry ur man since u have told him about your past wit his nephew.

Anonymous said...

You have done nothing wrong! But remember, all things are good but not all things are expedient...
princess

Unknown said...

Hmmm babe dis one na war if u no sabi pray go now n learn how to pray cos wetin u go see for dat marriage no be hia oooo I wish u luck

Anonymous said...

You aren't treacherous dear, things taken for granted get taken.

Anonymous said...

Let the head ache kill them. God has shown him his greatness. Congrats

Flora said...

My dear, let dem say or throw wateva kind of shade dey want... Abeg, marry d man o jare, wat rubbish... U tried sef, 8 yrs on and off, mtchew.. Good Riddance 2 bad rubbish

hotgirl said...

they will learn to live with it. You did nothing wrong.
Its shit to them though...lol but shit happens.
Marry him if u love him and he equally loves u.Your ex lost.

Anonymous said...

Wonderful pay bk ....we a guy mess up marry his uncle and mk him ur God son lol my dear go ahead with d marriage

Anonymous said...

its risky ooo

Unknown said...

Babes,do follow your heart,dont let any old flame stop ur joy but be sure u hv absolutely no feelings for the old guy.Goodluck!

Unknown said...

Please marry him jare!
His loss now he'll refer to you as Aunt lmao!
But get ready to dance to the tune coz they'll hate on you for a long time. You are not just getting married to his uncle but his family too so just be ready to dance to the tune of hate from your ex

Unknown said...

Babes,do follow your heart,dont let any old flame stop ur joy but be sure u hv absolutely no feelings for the old guy.Goodluck!

Unknown said...

I think the choice of who to marry is urs, don't let people deciede for u who to marry.
Marry him if u love him and feel confortable with it. No be family members dem dey marry in the days of the old.
Gsword.

Unknown said...

What exactly is d uncle in question doin abt d whole situation? I dnt c anything wrong in what you did even ur ex sista wud likely do d same if she were to be in ur shoes...let d uncle knw abt ur past relatnship with ur ex n see if e will fight for you...dt guy is just hurt cos e expectd u 2 foolishly come bak as usual!

Anonymous said...

GET MARRIED AND BE HAPPY. MAKE A LIST OF THEM THAT HATE YOU NOW AND SHUT YOUR MARITAL HOME DOOR ON THEM.

GOD BLESS YOU MARRIAGE.

Anonymous said...

My dear if possible marry his father..is he mad*intayo'svoice

Anonymous said...

GET MARRIED AND BE HAPPY. MAKE A LIST OF THEM THAT HATE YOU NOW AND SHUT YOUR MARITAL HOME DOOR ON THEM.

GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE.

Anonymous said...

Please carry on,its not ur fault

@DGoldenJenny said...

My dear you made the right choice
Just try n avoid your ex and his so called sis.
And try to know the area in which it seems to them as if you're in to intrude.
And always be prayerful.
Make sure you have no feelings for ex again cause he may try to retreat through what both of you had shared in the past.

Expectant mom said...

As long as u keep the uncle (ur bae) in the know, u are good to go. Dont mind the bad belle ex and sister.

Unknown said...

HE OBVIOUSLY GAVE HIS DINNER TO THE CAT.

Ogeyh said...

Except there's something you're not telling us, you're not treacherous.

flygal Ani said...

Hmmmm.. Over to you libers..

SWILL MARTIN said...

My dear,abeg marry yeye jare, it's not as if u guys had a kid or smthng,he's not interested in yhu,he should den allow sm1else cme in jare even if it's his uncle,buh uve got 2 put ur self in his shoes if a guy u dated buh dnt wnt anymore wnted 2 marry ur niece,how wud u feel?buh if ure okay wit it den go ahead,MARRY him if he makes u happy,dnt care about what ur uninterested Ex thinks!get married jare,my own sista is about 2 get married 2 1 of our grand cousins former boifwnd,so chill relax and do ya think,there ain't no harm honey..comprende?

Unknown said...

U sef get oju kokoro

Anonymous said...

Gurl, You can't please everybody. Jst do what's best for u and be happy

Anonymous said...

one word "ODE"

Anonymous said...

ure not wrong pls, jut make is luv

Unknown said...

Dat means u ve slpt wit both uncle n nephew ryt?

winniekoko said...

My dear I give u my full support.....just go ahead with the wedding, don't listen to anybody that will say u are treacherous.....this is the best man for u!

winniekoko said...

My dear I give u my full support.....just go ahead with the wedding, don't listen to anybody that will say u are treacherous.....this is the best man for u!

Miss Independent said...

Swity,I Wish U HML Already.... block Your Ears Marry Ur Luv ooo,Sumtyms In Life We Met ppl Who ar Like Our Stair Case 2Our Destiny, Dnt Eva Giv Up....... Congrt U Made D best Choice

winniekoko said...

My dear I give u my full support.....just go ahead with the wedding, don't listen to anybody that will say u are treacherous.....this is the best man for u!

Unknown said...

This is a non issue. They don't want you to be happy. Ignore them

HAWTTALKWITHTOSAN said...

Gurl please go ahead. He didn't want you now that you have found love he is jealous!

Unknown said...

pls carry on by all means! When they r tired they will shut-up! That's how some ppl have missed their true love simply bcos they didnt want to date or marry a family member of a ex!

Unknown said...

My dear please go ahead and get wedded with the man abeg. That guy and his sister are very un serious human beings. Good luck to you and congratulations my darling.

Unknown said...

Hmn. #speechless#

Unknown said...

Please go ahead dear. Ignore those devils! So long ur fiance is aware of ur past rship with his cousin, what's the big deal? Be happy with ur new man. #myadvice#

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