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B. 37 year old woman married with three/four kids and earns N150k a month - her husband also earns in the same range a month.
Which would you choose?
Tuesday 10 September 2013
Question for the ladies: Which would you choose?
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B. 37 year old woman married with three/four kids and earns N150k a month - her husband also earns in the same range a month.
Which would you choose?
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Na until u adopt children u go get rest of mind? Ole Nevis u too like plenty money...
First instinct was B, but now its definitely A.
I would not want to bring up my kids where I can't provide everything for them.
3/4 kids with that salary of option B leads to suffering and that leads to unhappiness.
Just pray and God can give u a husband and kids at 37.
No need to evn think twice,b is d best evn without earnin anytin i choose b,mony is nothin to compare to d joy luv n affection u get frm ur spouse n child/children.@37! No need to think twice
I choose b o. Its not like we'll starve. 300k a month is an average life style. And God can definitely increase us financially .there's nothing like family menh! I have a 6months old son, i'll give up an entire fortune just for him!
I will go with B any time any day
Shout out to all those that choosed b what is money without a family of ur own
i will go for A. i can still marry, have a family and i am not barren, i can do IVF, oh lawd the options. I will choose A.
300k a month with 4 kids means we will be saving from January to decemeber just for the kids to go to a decent school and wear decent clothes etc. no family vacation lai lai.
Presented with these options once again, i choose A
This question is somewhat confusing..Is it asking which will the Ladies be happy to live as or which will the Ladies choose to be with as in "in a relationship". i believe its the former. Any sensible female will go with option B by the way.
Bekee bu agbara!!!!! Kids n children kwa?
Akok aye men fi aka udi ooooo!!! I
I prefer d second woman, biko! 100 million nji eme gini?
I love ma kids n Hubby! Am contented!
both are gud.
Hhmm, Whatever makes you happy. Family doesn't necessarily make you happy. As a matter of fact, Many marriednigerian women are not only miserable, they inadvertently pass on their sad, broke life to their kids
Cos of my stature,I will rather go for A....cos evn wen I'm forty I'm nt gonna b planning for marriage.....I can always adopt as many children as I want
Linda if you had it as an option I would choose C that is filthy rich with two kids and no husband. Being a single mother with a lot of dough is waaaaaaaaaasy better than being single without kids and hunbby or having kids with an irksome hubby who makes life miserable Biko. You won't believe how many women are married and in hell
Its clear na, "Î’" is the best option
i said its a foolish question. Post my comment
Itong ke afo di..... Long throat
I'll go wif option B
B of course. what is the point having all the money and be lonely.
B
I'll choose option "B" my dearest Linda.N100 million can never replace the value of having children,the beauty of companionship and the joy of having one's own family. Life can only get better!!!!
Uncle PC, its not a mistake, its like asking d ladies which status they prefer, d 1st or d 2nd,
B all d way o! Family is golden
I will definately go for "B"
I would prefer A. By the way, I'm married and have a child. The money will be good and I'll get pregnant. No need for husband. Marriage isn't all that. I really believe I'll be happier without a husband. Don't need a husband to have kids!
I choose B
A abeg
Linda y aint u posting my comments huh? U wnt me to b an observer er'tym?
I will choose B bcos that's the best,nothing better and special than having a family of your own,its eternal happiness.
i will go with B God pls bless me with my own family as i write this. AMEN
A I will choose kids r likly 2 com since she is hopein so dere is enuf 2 care 4 dem & if dere is no kids she can adopt if u ve moni u will definately ve family
I'm so going 4 2 2nd one oooo,tins will surely get better! Linda make I no look 4 my post ooo
Linda the 2nd woman wld av bin jobless wit a tryn to try husband!dat wld make it a difficult thnk twise question/pick
I'd choose A. not everyone wants to be married with kids y"know.
Owo apeka nuko owo, jen ni e lowo maje ni e lorun! More money more prblms. I ll go 4 B n pray 4 betterment nau
Family is every thing.having a real man and I mean a MAN with kids add to happines that only God gives. Money will always come with determination,direction and hardwork .
im quite sure option a\ is Linda herself.
Linda the 2nd woman wld av bin jobless wit a tryn to try husband!dat wld make it a difficult thnk twise question/pick
I choose FAMILY!!! Mkat.
im quiet sure option A] defines linda ikeji.......lol.u bera go nd marry oh.
Both....y do I hv 2 choose....I cn hv it ol :)
People who choose to be married are committed to each other and fully acknowledge the responsibilities attached. When a man and woman decide to wed, they choose to be together till death do them part and officially recognize their other half. Most marry with the intent of starting a family and having children.
Children are seen as a source of joy and enrichment to the married couple. These married couples do not see children as a burden and hindrance as they originally have love and desire for children.
Setting aside large sums of money to finance their child’s education and livelihood may result in financial strains and stress, but to these parents, seeing their children succeed in life is their motivation. Besides, this helps in perfecting the parents’ time and financial management.
Marriage is said to bring out the best in people. Patience, sacrifice, consideration and compromise is nurtured in the course of marriage when a couple spends more time together and learn more about each other. Marriage, thus, is a process of emotional nurturing and maturing. It teaches one to be more understanding and selfless.
Being married does not mean cutting off all associations with working life and achievement of materialistic goals. The striving up the corporate ladder can be accomplished within the bounds of marriage. To some, it may be much better as spouses can encourage each other and support each other financially and emotionally. Marriage is therefore seen by some to be the best of both worlds.
Marriage is also a form of gaining social status for women. Being married to someone rich or famous immediately elevates a woman’s status in society. The married couple’s social circle widens as well, providing a greater source of social interaction in their lives.
Marriage not just fulfills the religious, cultural or traditional obligations or expectations in society, but also fulfills many governments’ intentions. The promotion of marriage and procreations can be seen through the proliferation of the mass media, campaigns and advertisements. Although countries such as China are seriously overpopulated, marriage is still promoted, but at a later age. This shows that marriage is still an essential and natural course in many countries.
Marriage is ultimately up to the individual and his or her beliefs. There are definitely pros and cons in remaining single or getting married, and it is therefore unjustified to state that marriage is better as being single may be just as fulfilling as well.
I will choose option B not withstanding.
@MLKJRB
I want A and B. Am greedy like that.
B! But a is not bad too!
I would choose B,she is far richer than A
Jd
I'll go with B anytime any day
linda u should have reduced B to 20k or 30k,,cos its easy for u gals to pick 150k a month,thats nt bad in naija nau,,i mean,realistically,how much do govt pay?except politicians and company workers,or one or two other ventures,,so thats a very very cheap question okay?talk another thing abeg
linda u should have reduced B to 20k or 30k,,cos its easy for u gals to pick 150k a month,thats nt bad in naija nau,,i mean,realistically,how much do govt pay?except politicians and company workers,or one or two other ventures,,so thats a very very cheap question okay?talk another thing abeg
Linda is dat ur condition?I mean d A option.y do u want to knw wat we fink na.anyways B is preferable .ask Reedee nd her counter parts in d single world hw dey feel been single with plenty mny nd no kids to call deir own.
Prince C. Which 1 be ur own sef? Which 1 be woman 4 woman inside d matter. Comment if u want 2 or keep off wit dat miserable profile pix of urs.
Option B,final answer!!!!!1
ONEA....
B of course!!!
Would choose b.
Regards to ur children(cattle)funky Mallam
I want a b oh...cus wen eva u c ya kids dey gives u joy n d disturb,lyin on ya body,fightin u n cryin always giv u joy n happiness.cus i luv childrens n family...sexy deeee
B. From experience. A no meaningful life
B. From experience. A no meaningful life
Linda money aint everytin. I knw. U need a man 2 cuddle to, a family dat is urs. Dats priceless. Definetly no 2. More money l8r. Just sayin...D Curious1
Na number 2 sure pass na..
I will choose B cox things will definately get better.My Family first atleast we r stil earnin somtin.With God we will get 2 d millionnaira's club.
Option B biko.......
Money isn't everything.
Money aint everytin. Option A opens door 2 depression,heartbreak due to desperade measures, leaches dat want ur money, fibroid n endometrial carcinoma. Maybe even suicide. Money is a cold n empty friend. Just sayin...D Curious1
Linda money aint everytin. I knw. U need a man 2 cuddle to, a family dat is urs. Dats priceless. Definetly no 2. More money l8r. Just sayin...D Curious1
Linda I cnt help bt asume 2 u whr referin 2 urself in option A.. Bt nyway I'd go wt b,smtimes it not all abt mny.
I prefer A cos i can buy my husband and have kids...dat the muthafucker wunt cheat on me!
This should b for d men na. I choose B anytime!
Chinekeeee!!re u asking?nnaaah I'll go 4 A,Inukwa! she is open 2 a husband nd kids she didn't say she didn't want at all,life is sweet wit money.tell ur selfs d truth
Lindz choose first, then I'd follow
~D great anonymous!
I choose the married and happy
B is the best
As a married woman if I had a choice I will go for A. Abeg Marriage is overrated. You want kids go to the sperm bank abeg. Enjoy your wealth, men will come and go
I'd choose 'B' without even giving option 'A' a second thought#Happiness is Priceless and trust me 300 million naira aint worth mine :)
PRETTY GIRL
Am in category b, loving it
am sure prince charming read the heading, it says "QUESTION FOR THE LADIES"
I will prefer B that's my choice
Linda keep using my comments to fry plantain
The real baby oku
My hubby and I earn just enough to meet our needs. We manage to go on holiday with our 4 kids every 2 years. We dont have flashy cars, massive house, but a home full of joy, laughter, arguments, tears, love, respect..... I will not exchange what I have for $1000 millions!!!!
Oh, so u can be this dumb n clueless?
Good to know :D
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I will choose B anyday...there is notn like being married and with ur own kids. #happiness.
Linda dear I chose A Ooº°˚˚°ÂºoO! Life doesn't start or end in marriage. I'd rather be single than to be married to a man who will bring pains n sorrows.it is written, Money answereth all TINZ!!! Money is a defense (not husband) lol. Get a love-child. Shiknah!
Is this a trick question? I will choose the first without much ado, adoption is not a bad thing. As for marriage, most of them don't last forever. 200 million naira can do a lot.
it would definitely be option B.
"A" shouldn't assume mother nature would be kind to her if she does not reproduce b/4 manopause strikes. But there is an easy way out. .
1. She must marry quickly and take in to avoid manopause
2. Preserve her ovaries/eggs in Ovary Bank for future use.
3. Pay a surrogate mother to bear her children from the preserved ovaries and suitable sperm.
4. Adoption.
5.Or have a male friend for confort sake or pay some dude oversea to fuck her once in a while.
Linda Ikeji. Babe come u really think its easy to type on blackberry Phone bah? It is not and why on earth must u give every chance for Tom(Prince Charming) and Harry(Prince Jobless)and sideline me? Are you high on cheap cocaine?abeg nah God I take beg u ALWAYS POST MY BBM POSTED Comment!!!
You dnt have to b miserable just cos u single thoo... Lonely yh at times, you know ow many married people wiv kids that still feel lonely!
I go for A...I wanna have all d money..since am hoping to have a husband and kids soon.
Linda GOD bless u 4 dis post..am married wiv kids n fins re a bit rough..buh just reading dis gave me hope n made me realise dt I've got it all, my kids re d most precious fin on earth, money isn't everyfin..as long as dere is life dere is hope..itz only a phase n we wld scale tru..GOD bless u
I choose A because there is no happiness for me without money. i can barely cope as a single girl with a salary of 150k.
I prefer been married with 3kids and earn 150k per month, cos many women out der ve the millions, but no respect cos they aint married.
Option B is d best so far,I love family nd children ,can't wait to av mine soon
Option B is d best so far,I love family nd children ,can't wait to av mine soon
Kids n children seriously? Derz no difference between kids n children... Dey mean d same fing
If u are married as u said and dats u choose A den u are really unhappy and should consider getting a divorce or making ur marriage work. And den Linda, life is about patience,u can have it all if u pray,d God dat gave u 100Million will give u a husband, dat am sure of. If only u will yield, maybe change some attitude,some not very good character and have faith. Then lastly, don't be rigid,lower ur standard,just cos u have millions doesn't mean he will. I suggest u read "think like a man, Act likea lady" by Steve Harvey. All d best Linda, d right man will come by God's grace.If dis will make u feel better, my cousin married at 36 five yrs ago, she's 41 now an she has 3kids. Twin boys an a gal.
@Yewande and anonymous 2:52; LOL! Very clueless indeed! You can say that again! My bad! My brain must be operating on a low today. Thanks!
Lin,i will go with option B.No man should be an island to him/herself and besides the joy of having your own kids,words can't totally express.
Lin,i will go with option B.No man should be an island to him/herself and besides the joy of having your own kids,words can't totally express.
Family family family... Some may choose money but I choose family even with all the ups n downs
money rocks can change the dynamics of the world but isn't all that matters.
Ode!!! Aw can u b lonely n miserable wen u av dat kind of money,huh??? A business woman for dat matter.wen u actually dnt knw wat it will b lik wen u av dat kind of money.... mumu
I choose BBBBBBBBBB Again and again........we all need family to complete the joy.
Awww
A. 37 year old woman, who has her own business and is worth N200million, with N100milion cash sitting in your bank account, BUT no husband or kids...but hoping to one day have them.
No OR THERE LINDA A IT IS
even though B is a wonderful option, I choose A. these are my reasons
1. A hubby and kids are not for we mere humans to choose, its Gods business, so if at 37 i am not married then God knows best. those who are married is by the grace of God.
2. Money is something you can choose if you are honest you work hard to get it. if you are not you do what dishonest people do. But the bottom line is that it is your choice.
3. 300k salary will not take care of 3-4 kids, a home, and other needs. school fees, bills, health care, and many others, thus you cannot guarantee you will be happy. if you are going to have 3-4 kids you better have more money, or else you will cheating those kids.
4. Even if you had a wonderful husband the pressures of taking care of kids will weight down on your marriage. how much more in Nigeria where men do not share the full contents of their bank accounts with their wives, or use their savings to chase other ladies.
please let us as nigerian ladies be objective and realistic there is nothing like 3-4 kids family on 300K = smiling happy couple. maybe 1-2 but not 3-4.
Abeg oh option A. Not evry married person with kids is happy. Beside u can still get married at 39 40. and have kids too like d manage manage ppl. Besides marriage is not evrythin jst d way money is not evrythin. Linda post my comment oooh.
Option A ooh. Dt phrase happily married,not all married ppl no d meaning oh, even their beautiful kids ontoo of it no money for beautiful distractions. Mba oh. one can stll get married at 39 or so and have kids and meet up wit d married ppl. Bt fr 150k to meet up to 200m. haa a miracle is needed.
Option A ooh. Dt phrase happily married,not all married ppl no d meaning oh, even their beautiful kids ontoo of it no money for beautiful distractions. Mba oh. one can stll get married at 39 or so and have kids and meet up wit d married ppl. Bt fr 150k to meet up to 200m. haaa a miracle is needed.
B any day any time, becos family comes first and dey are always dere 2 celebrate ur achievement wit u.
Option A ooh. Dt phrase happily married,not all married ppl no d meaning oh, even their beautiful kids ontoo of it no money for beautiful distractions. Mba oh. one can stll get married at 39 or so and have kids and meet up wit d married ppl. Bt fr 150k to meet up to 200m. haa a miracle is needed. Linda post my comment na, shooo wetin i do u
Is this a reflection of how you see yourself soon Linda? Just asking #StraightFace
Ladies sha... smh
lindaikeji i know u re trying to console your self don't worry the rite man will find you
I will choose A, who says you can't have kids or a loving husband at 37 :p...150K koo 150k nii..so my children will not be able to go to the same kind of schools i went to..chukwu ekwena ife ojo..who says you can't have the best of both worlds...
Hmmmm abeg money is vry impotant o dnt mind d owo o
Linsa THIS IS UNA STORY. IF U LIKE CHANGE AND MODIFY DETAILS.
B IS A BETTER OPTION. ABOUT 15 YEARS AGO, WHEN I WAS UNDER TWENTY, I WOULD HAVE PICKED OPTION A. BUT WITH MATURITY EVERY WOMAN WILL REALIZE THAT AL THIS RUN UP AND DOWN DOING DIFFERENT THINGS., what MATTERS IS FULFILMENT AND HAPINESS. MONEY INITIALLY BRINGS THAt BUT TRUE HAPPINESS MONEY CANNOT KEEP.
Oprah Winfrey must be miserable then lol
B is the option because irrespective of the economic sitiuation in Nigeria today N300K can still make a family live well and be happy!
To choOse for my sisters i will them to go for option B over and over again
Kids and children?! Unless you mean baby goat and children. Lol
Yeaa, things will definitely get better!
Kai dan ubanka who talk say be d only hausa man wey dey blog?
Option A does not mean you cant have the things the person in option B has. Omotola nko.... How about Okonjo Iweala?
That you dont have a husband, does not mean you cant have a child.... after all, are children not the ultimate benefit gained from marriage? Come on people..... we know that the butterfly feelings only last a maximum of five years. Then, the need to be together for the kids becomes paramount.
......and please tell me what makes you, with a chronic cheating husband different from the woman with no husband? When given the opportunity, your husband would gladly cheat with a woman that has achieved...... a million times over and even compare you with her... and tell you how much of a failure you are.... Sad? but that is men for you.....That is how they are programmed, they really cant be bothered. The Nigerian case is worse because we pamper our men too much. They behave the way they do because they know we women are desperate....
So ladies..... get your mind right..... The fact that your ambition in life is to be married with kids does not mean that, it is the same for your fellow woman.... I dont think there is any woman created by GOD that does not want to be married at some point....even if you dont want to, your nature would betray you.... It is GOD that gives husband, you cant walk into a store and purchase it.....neither can you force your boo into Tiffany & Co or Cartier.....
I understand that for some women, marriage is their ticket to a better life. But if GOD has blessed you with the opportunity and resources to pursue a potentially fruitful career, its only sensible to do so.... You would be ungrateful and lazy not to.
The problem is that most African women crave the security of marriage to a fault, even when it is not swinging in our favour. If we adopt a different attitude, perhaps our men may begin to act up and live up to their responsibilities......
You should not expect any different, from a girl, who for some unknown reason keeps being bugged by married men..... even newly married ones .....
Linda, how far? E be like say u fall into the 1st category abi
I dont understand this unintelligent question linda, pl is a 37yr unmarried woman with no kids a plague? MY GOD!!! no wonder things are falling apart in this country with your terrible mindsets.
2nd option. That I'll wash for my sister.
Its 'B' all the way-God always makes a way!
Oloshi Armed Robber,Banza Barawo thief...
One million dollars ko, one billion pound ni.
Haha..i laff, 200 million is too much sef..i will choose A.. anytime anyday.. as long as d money don't finish
Linda u r madder,u didn't post my previous comment for dis matter abi? It's ur life story beta come wiv me gna make u a Canadian Citizen
No 1 no contest..
option A. there's still time to find a good man
HOUSE RENT IN ABUJA, IS LIKE 800K AND ABOVE IN TOWN, THAT ALONE GO FINISH YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND SALARY, LAI LAI, 150K A MONTH AINT SHIT, NOT IN NIGERIA, NOT TO TALK OF TUITION, THE BEST SCHOOLS AND MEDICAL CARE AINT CHEAP AS WELL, A ANYDAY ANYTIME, A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN WILL ATTRACT A SUCCESSFUL MAN
B.
Linda abeg nor listen to all these Yeye Nigerian women ohhhh. Make your money, nor worry love go come. Nor be do or die. Who says money cannot buy happiness is a poor pauper. If na pikin you dey find, go sperm show room. You go see good ones
I agree with Lepa, nothing beats having it all!
this easy A anytime wetin man suppose do for me at this point wen he doesnt even make that much..mschew
your using this to console yourself right? u wouldnt be 37 4ever sha...and the 150k woman wouldnt earn dat 4ever either
Please go and sleep. It's definitely people like you that persuade ladies to go and marry without considering the guy or taking their time. And when it doesn't work well and they divorce, you all will be making noise just like what happened to Funke Akindele. Abeg Linda take your time and wait on Gods' time.
i'll go for A, A all the way I don't care what anyone says poverty cant workout for me
I will choose A. When the money, I can freezed my eggs so when I'm ready to have children, it wouldn't be difficult.
A. I will use about $200 thousand to frizzed about four eggs. That way even if a husband comes at age forty, we will have our children.
I will choose A. When the money, I can freezed my eggs so when I'm ready to have children, it wouldn't be difficult.
A NOW..... AND WHO SAID PPLE WITH MPNEY R LONELY???? DEN YOU HAVE NOT SEEN MONEY
NA WA O LINDA A NOW MUST SOME1 BE MARRIED TO HV KIDS? PLEASE JOR A
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We hv human diffrences. Am going for A. I'll hook up wt guys or smth...
PEOPLE ARE SAYING WHAT IS MONEY WITHOUT LOVED ONCE TO SPEND IT WITH? UNA NO GET PARENTS AND LOVED ONES? CAN'T A PERSN ADOPT? MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY AND ITS NOT BY FORCE,MARRIAGE IS NOT A GUARANTEE THA YOU WILL ENTER HEAVEN, 150K CANNOT BUILD A HOUSE FOR MY PARENTS, WHAT CAN YOU EVN INVEST IN WITH THAT, HOUSE RENT ALONE GO FINISH THE MONEY, A IS BETTER JARE!!! THIS IS A NO BRAINER
A
Technology has advanced
I can always do artificial insemination
What d probability that if I marry I will not end up having a divorce
A
Technology has advanced
I can always do artificial insemination
What d probability that if I marry I will not end up having a divorce
A happy family trumps every other possibilities.
seek ye first the kingdom of God nd its righteousness then every other things will be added unto u,money,children and a good husband,fullfillment,joy,etc
seek ye first the kingdom of God nd its righteousness then every other things will be added unto u,money,children and a good husband,fullfillment,joy,etc
Y do we av some stupid people! Linda only asked a question, y ar some idiots refering 2her. If pple kip doin dis, dere's no way u guys r goin 2move forward! U all shud stop dis pls
A all day. All of u saying B have not tasted real money. It's broke people that say money is not everything. I earn 2k dollars a month right now and I can't imagine raising kids with this salary. It's not even enough for me to pay my bills and go shopping and still save. Give me my millions. I will get married the same year and have kids.
Did she say option B was happy? No she didn't. She could be trapped in a loveless marriage with a useless cheating husband and the poor kids have to suffer for it. The best option is to choose happiness. Neither option A nor B guarantees happiness in the present or future. I guess different strokes for different folks.
Dee dee
A!!
ah i choose 4kids and husband o.. can make d money gradually... cant be a loner
linda this one you are asking... tired of being single? must not post but you must be feeling lonely to ask this question.
Ahan na wa o what has d topic at hand got to do with yr account and with whether people believe you or not? some people though? I think you just sounded like a pauper and a stark illiterate. Madame Linda post my comment!
You just made a valid point here,( my kids may grow up to become great). My mother in law single handedly brought up her kids with little or nothing, struggling to do dt till they came of age and became graduates today all her kids her married and her extremely well to do and there is absolutely nothing dt woman wants dt she doesn't have cos her kids makes it a point of duty dt she lacks nothing to the extent that she gives money and gifts to random people that she believes don't have. That's what ones kids can do make u forever bless d day you had dem. And if u choose a and u die pple who don't even knw you will inherit everything I ever worked for and one thing we should knw for pple who are hitting their chest to say A,you might earn 150 today and earn 700 tomorrow
A haha haha true talk o, cos u still have another four to five years before the no hope scenario. U can date for a year den try making babies for d next two to three years den just pray and hope for a set of twins ( boy and girl).
B is d bestno family no happiness
B is d bestno family no happiness
B is d bestno family no happiness
B is d bestno family no happiness
please people be realistic. Sean Manuel comment is my comment
I choose B b/cos B is more than the whole world to me.
Abeg oh No 1 all the way> I will sha adopt children or try to have one thru a donor sperm or even a surrogate. At least I have to money to afford it!! and I will also keep the hope alive husband still fit come. I cant even deal with 150K a month salary. No money equals frustration abeg
I choose B b/cos B is more than the whole world to me.
I choose B b/cos B is more than the whole world to me.
I choose B b/cos B is more than the whole world to me.
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Linda I will Choose A, because am hoping that one day or before I clock forty I will definitely marry and hv kids.
Moreover these days men prefer a rich lady. Even if the man does not have a good job or business i will definitely support him financially and we will move forward.
I will be happy to chose A, at 37, I will still marry and hv kids. There are so many ladies out in their forties an not yet married. What is the need bringing children u can't take care of. I will never reach menopause at 37, even if i reach I will adopt
Men will even rush U at that. There are so many ladies suffering in their marriages today so marriage and kids does not determine ur happiness
I will go for B. Anyone going for A should think properly becos after getting all dat money nobody to share it with.
the first please and hope the man and children will come along!!! i can always adopt and have a hot dude for fun LOL
B.
Personally i go for option A. be comfortable financially and hope to have a family. But who says family must be husband and ur own children? lots of us live our live through the eyes of our society and traditions, what people say and think. What is happiness and what is fulfillment? how can one say dat u have money but no husband and children is vanity? who says that husbands and children are not vanities? Are people been remembered by d husband and children they have? for Christians, do children and husbands help to secure heaven? what happens to women who have dedicated their lives to God and humanitarian services? Who says they are not fulfilled? Fulfillment is individualistic. what brings fulfillment to one may not to another.An husband and children is only an aspect of a woman's life and not all there is to her life. Companionship is important bcos we feel alone at one time or d other but dat is not to say dat d absence of a companion in form of an husband and children makes life worthless for a woman. Lives worth is measured with how we impact the world positively leaving it better than we met it. Some ladies married don't have d right reasons to be married. They only have d reasons society, friends and family gives them. only women who do not know their true value places life and self worth on a man. having an husband and children is good. having money and be single is good. one's choice is dependent on one's true desire. To me money makes everything beautiful, money brings sweetness to every relationship, it can give one's kids d best of life, it aids achievement of goals, it brings confidence and rest. If u've an healthy relationship with God who is ur source and u have money there is nothing u can't achieve. i will only trade money for a better relationship with God not for husband or children. some women hide their frustrations and failures behind their children or husbands. They use marriage and children as consolation for not investing in themselves as required and for the low self esteem they suffer. Ladies be d best u can be whether single or married. husbands and children are good just like good things in life but is not the alpha and omega of a woman's life. so to some of u commenting here, pls it is totally wrong to say a woman's life is vanity or wortless without a man and children. As a man thinketh so is he. If u think ur life is worthless without a man or children, then it is. Life is beautiful.
Linda pls be specific... u didn't indicate if the B option came with a good husband. Many are married but miserable & many are single & happy.
I only want d best 4myself so im nt choosing any of d two cuz its nt my portion..i want to be married with kids nd my account will be smiling wit millions of naira,so help me God Amen but if am forced 2choose one of d two -kll choose A bcos bcos money is evritin,u cnt imagine wot im goin thru now bcos of money,so money does it all ooo,i cnt let my children suffer.lind plsss post my comment
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Amin nko nka ye akpa do.
Okuk akemi sio ebe ye ndito.
Linda are you talking about yourself in some years? Don't worry God would do it for you. Don't become desperate, that's when they would not come.
In this day and age, having a hubby or children, does not mean they will stick around... Gimme the money
if i'll choose @ all, not someone married
Couple of years ago I wuld ave said option A, but now, looking at my beautiful little angel smile back at me that am forever greatful to God for giving me a home, there is no feeling greater than waking up every day and being surrounded with loved ones you can even give up your life for.so option B remains the best.for the single find out from your mother if she will trade you for any amount before wishing yourself what wll hurt you for the rest of your life.
with new technology like frozen eggs, surrogate pregnancy, IVF and old efficient methods like adoption "belle be4 marriage" why would any lady rush in to marriage. I will wait for my right man, as long as God don talk am e go happen. Option A all the way . Money is not everything but it helps
I choose A......most pple get married to d wrong pple n de r still broke......
A-37years old WITHOUT liabilitites. I will frozen my eggs or adopt
I think i will choose the A,bt wat d hell,only God knw his plan for me
Option B anyday anytime
TRANSLATION: Hmmm, this one hard o, first and formost since i like money too much i dont want to be a poor person so that i can be young and fresh, i can adopt children. Gbam.
Uyayi Unam ikot
I choose option B anytime
wow im so surprised that so many people picked B. A was the immediate choice for me. Im 32 unmarried and not at all lonely. If I got to 37 and my business was together that would make me happy. If you look good men will always come if you still want to marry late you can marry a younger guy or a divorcee or your mate thats also unmarried. Women can still have kids up to 40 and there is always ivf or adoption
i would choose the B option without a second thought
i know i am do late with this response. being single doesn't mean you are unhappy or lonely. you can be married and be unhappy because you have a husband that cheats on you and beats you. so both options have their advantages and disadvantages.
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