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Thursday, September 12, 2013

Dear LIB readers: A man wants to pay me off to leave my girlfriend

From a male LIB reader
I've been dating this lady for about two years now and she has been pressuring me to propose. We are both 29 and sincerely I am not ready to get married but I do like her and want to continue the relationship but amazingly about a week ago I got a call from a man offering me N500, 000 to end my relationship with her. The man is my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend who went to America 7 years ago. He's back in Nigeria now and wants to marry her but she told him she's in a relationship with me and can't leave me. I think he believes he can get her if I'm out of the picture hence the offer. I really like this lady but N500, 000 is a lot of money, I'm tempted to take it, especially since I am not ready to settle down. If I take it would that make me a bad person? I want my girlfriend to be happy and getting married would make her happy, so I would be doing her a favour by letting her go I think.

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Anonymous said...

And you have the audacity to ask this question? Umu nwanyi afugo ife. You're just a sheep in male body...

HATERS-SLAYER said...

just 500k.rubbish.buh d ????? Is,is she also willing to leave u for d rich guy

Anonymous said...

Plz break up with her for her own good bcoz u are a useless road block in her way. Pple like u are wat my church prays against everyday. Enemy on d way of progress. Thank you for loving her e don do! If u really love her u will break up even if she threatens suicide. As for d money....d level of uselessness u possess will determine if u take it or not. thankz

Anonymous said...

A though 1, wld let er go

Anonymous said...

U're a scallywag, how much is 500,000 if really u love d babe. Ur head is not correct, d man shouldn't give u a fadin, I promise u dis rlshp will die a natural death very soon. It's obvious na d babe dey feed u, dats y u're still with her. Men n selfishness!

Anonymous said...

Omg! Is this guy this guy serious? Hahaha! Your gf is worth 500,000k that's just an ordinary 2000 pounds ooo. She really needs to dump ur ass. Chai! The thought of u even contemplating the offer is nuts.
Ayisha x

Anonymous said...

Mschew, you are a bad person ni... wai i want her to be happy that's why. abi you want your pocket to be happy. oshi.

Anonymous said...

Better let her go,don't end up ruining her life.

Anonymous said...

Tell him to bring N1m.

Anonymous said...

Jackass! Take the money, because you're not worth her time anyway. If you have to ask about it, that means you are considering taking it. Also, at 29 and 2 years of dating her, you're still not thinking about marriage? If I were her, I would leave your ass.

Maggie said...

your are such a dumb-ass. you really dont deserve that lady is 500,000 is your problem... shameless whore. that's what you are. pls. take the money and leave her.

Anonymous said...

I know you never loved her, all she is to you is a sex mate. For you to even consider taking the money under any circumstance tells a lot about your personality, so sad that people don't have integrity anymore and lacks conscience. Just tell her you aint gonna marry her, end the relationship but please have a little bit of conscience and self respect by not collecting the money after u end the relationship. Show some respect to her!!!!!

Angel Ricardo said...

What a small minded man. The girl definitely doesn't mean anything to you if a paltry N500,000 can buy her off. Good luck.

Anonymous said...

Bro, just let the lady move on, the dude (ex) mite be despirate o and ask 4 ya life instead, #bewise bro

Anonymous said...

U don't love ur girlfriend, but I can't judge any decision u take cause u r obviously not ready so take the 500 cause u may never marry this girl and if the guy is so desperate to offer u 500 k then I think he deserves to marry her.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Ogbeni sharrap there! @I really like this lady but #500,000 is a lot of money.
To be frank with you,you don't love love this lady like u claim,u just like what she gives u,coz if u love her u won't even harbour such thought.
Go and collect ur money before its late,now u're collecting the bride price of the lady u knew not the way she was born.
Poverty na bastard.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Nigerian Food Recipes said...

It's very straightforward...You clearly don't love her. I won't give the slightest financial or asset consideration when it comes to my a woman that I love.

If you don't love here and not ready to settle down, why don't you leave her and walk away rather than being a thief and making money off a well crafted heartbreak!

Anonymous said...

If you're not ready, let her go if u can live with it but do NOT collect the money.
Better still, have a heart to heart talk with her to find out where she stands in this whole thing. This needs not be a war. It can be settled amicably

Anonymous said...

Na wa ooooo,

Anonymous said...

Pls let her go. For the fact that you're even considering this is a red flag. 29 is pretty ripe for a woman, so stop wasting her time.

Anonymous said...

Dnt loss a woman cos of money

Anonymous said...

Bros take it! Cos wheather u want it or not remember ur not ready n she needs to marry! She will still go u will loose. Thank u

Anonymous said...

you can jump off a clip and nobody would give a damn!!

Anonymous said...

If you have to ask... you are better off taking the money. You don't love her at all. Take it and leave her the hell alone! Mother fucker!


Mayo

Anonymous said...

Greed ... i know how this is going to play out. you are going to regret it.

Anonymous said...

The bitter truth is that you don't truely love your girlfriend.

titi lola said...

U WLD B D 1ST PERSON ILD EVA INSULT ON LIB. U ARE REALLY STUPID

Annie said...

Onye Oshi......

Anonymous said...

Sharp guy no dull am oo, collect money and leave d babe..it seems you are seriously hungry for 500,000 to b a whole lot of money, collect money and go start a biz with ur 500,000...lolz..

Anonymous said...

Man if u love ur girl, u can't dish her for 500k. Its also possible dat u may not like to marry her in future, so exmine ur self to avoid story dat touch.

chike kalu said...

You'll be the biggest fool if you take the money. You aren't doing her a favour but selling her. Repaint the picture and put yourself in her position.

Anonymous said...

my brother just take the money and free the babe...since you are not ready to get married...

Anonymous said...

Rubbish boy like you.. na so u go let go then come they beg after she don port. you will not value what you have until you loose it

Anonymous said...

you're a goat.

Anonymous said...

Let her go . For u considering d moni in d first place shows dat u neva really liked her. Stop wasting her time n do ur self gud wit d moni

Anonymous said...

"I really like this lady but N500, 000 is a lot of money, I'm tempted to take it, especially since I am not ready to settle down."- NO, YOU DON'T LIKE THIS LADY AND YOU KNOW YOURSELF YOU DON'T WANT TO MARRY HER OR ELSE YOU WOULD NOT HAVE THOUGHT OF THE FACT THAT 500,000 IS A LOT OF MONEY. YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A SNAKE AND IF I WERE THE WOMAN, I WOULD DROP YOU WITHOUT YOU LIKE THE SNAKE THAT YOU ARE

Anonymous said...

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Lionel Coba said...

"U must be dulling.......,sit down nd be dulling"

Anonymous said...

Sure u wil b helping her doh buh dnt u tink u mite b loosing somfin worth more dan 500k? Tink well dearie....Mz Bee

Anonymous said...

Follow your heart..but av it at d back of ur mind dt u will still settle down weda nw or lata even If u take d moni

Anonymous said...

If u know u won't marry her y not let go,but rem true love is priceless.

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

Complicated indeed! Don't take the money, that's a low on your person, but then you don't wanna settle down with her yet, so is she ready to wait? If she isn't ready to wait then let the decision be on her, to wait and be with you or if she can't wait and considers the guy better she can go for him, but don't take his money to let her go.

Anonymous said...

BROS!, 500k for a relationship you kept for 2 years does not worth it.please tink twice, that money can finish in 2 days but the babe can gone forever.


Denz said...

see what money can cause?... it makes you foolish!

Anonymous said...

Never u try to listen to him; u could be selling ur wife if u do that. No amount of money can buy love; unless u do nt love her. Be wise!

Yomslaw said...

Negotiate for a better Money........$$$$$In Millions$

Anonymous said...

Biko collect money 500k......omo sharp sharp no dull urself oooooooo......but if u collect d money u would look so cheap.....who cares .we need money ma guy

Anonymous said...

Free the lady from ur bondage n help urself with the money

QUEEN B♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ said...

Lmao!lips sealed

Anonymous said...

This guy is a fearless military personified... Nigeria will benefit alot from him if such talent could be harness.

Anonymous said...

see hwat money can cause?... makes one foolish!

Anonymous said...

shallow and weak minded person you are....you obviously dont deserve her because you still need to grow up..PITY!

Anonymous said...

If you want her to be happy, let her go without collecting the money from the other guy. What goes around must surely come around.

GOdHonestTruth:) said...

Why take the money tho,just leave if your heart is not in it.why if you take that money and die the next day than what.or you might take that money and really enjoy it but remember nothing off ill will make the joy last forever. It will be a very short happiness if you take that money.... Don't be a snake in the grass:)

Anonymous said...

Ask her, just tell her how u r not ready now and ask if she luvs her x Enuff 2 marry him, tell her how u only want her happiness bcos truthfully bruv for the fact that you've considered the option already there is no way u r going to marry this girl, don't deceive yourself bcos it will only b a lie. In order for u to save face and live with yourself without your conscience giving u problems just sit her down and talk 2 her abt it bcos for all u know she may have been the 1 that told him to offer u money, meanwhile u try and tell d x to up what he wants to pay bcos she is definitely worth more than that..... @least to d guy. Lol. BM

Anonymous said...

500k, he can offer you more.

Anonymous said...

If you really love her and you know she loves you truly too, don't do that...and who ever told you you can never have million folds of that money?..have the fear of God and have the thought that if she do that to you too, how would you feel?...don't be the second judas who sold Jesus...
CrownBC say so via {iphone6d}

Anonymous said...

at 29...such a pity you still have a lot of growing up to do..shallow and weak agbaya.

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha! I guess you're trying to play the smart one and you want justification for you action right?
Now,after you took her love for granted for 2good years now u're set to trade her love for 500k what a. Shame .I guess u must be related to thesame Judas in the bible.
If u really want to leave her,carry your wahala dey go and dnt trade her .
Icon 07.

ms fadeshewa said...

Its shows u don't love er dats why u wnt to take d money

Anny said...

If you want to leave pls do so with some respect. Not selling her off to some guy who left her 7 years ago!if she were married to you and he came back would you say cause of 500k you would give ur wife out?????

Anonymous said...

You don't deserve your gurlfriend. Simply call off the relationship.If u choose to sell your self respect for 500k that's your own cup of tea.

Nneoyi Otu said...

U r not ready 4 marriage so let go of her,I won't advice u 2 take d money.but b sincere 2 d girl n let her know ur mind period.

Anonymous said...

Ogbeni carry d money joor. Shay 2mao now if u no gree marry am she go fall out of love. Na that money sure pass

Anonymous said...

Lolz, that's a funny way of justifying the action u wanna take. I think she would be really disappointed if you took the offer. Nd 500k isn't so much sef

Anonymous said...

Since you are not ready to settle down, allow her go but don't take the money.

Anonymous said...

If you rily like her or lover her like you claim den you sud leave her if you r nt ready 2settle down bt dnt take money from the babe's ex.ow much is 500k compared 2d help she,d man or any1 she knws mite render 2u n future sud incase you nid their hlp. So pls dnt b greedy,do d rite fin by nt takn money &jst let her go already if you r nt ready.bt you guyz sud part peacefully o,no grudges &let her understand you r nt ready. #damsel#

Kazeem Akinwale said...

This boy really need the 500,000 than the girl Omo do ur wish ooo

NO DULLING said...

bros you get luck oo what are u wetin for na, abeg grab the money and leavINUS

Anonymous said...

U obviously dnt want to gt married and if u hv to think this seriously abt the money that means u want it...u myt as well take the money and leave her to gt married to guy she wants to marry...doesn't make u a bad person...doesn't necessarily make u a good person either so...sorry :(

Anonymous said...

Get out foolsih guy! so why bringing it 2 d public wen u ve already made up ur mind 2 collect d money, beside u re not ready 4 marriage. I Can see dat poverty is really a deases if 500k is a whole lot money 2 u, look how cheap u can be rubbish.

Anonymous said...

Guy collect d money

Anonymous said...

u will be a greedy person to do that, because ur love can be bought over with money....

Anonymous said...

If u really love her, don't sell her off and if she really loves u, she won't allow herself to be sold off. Discuss with her to know her position. She has to decide. But if u know you wl not marry her at d end, pls let her go but not on a price.

Anonymous said...

Rubbish!!!

Anonymous said...

C'mon dude, yes that makes you a bad person. Money ain't everything you know! 500k isn't a lot of money and when it's finished and you go looking for get cos you realise you love her, she'll hate you cos you sold her love for 500k.

Anonymous said...

First of all you are a cheap B@$T*RD, 500K pere and your body is itching you like this??? You really don't deserve her... Abeg free the girl!

Tory said...

Well, in as much as getting married will make ur gf happy, will getting married to someone other than u make her happy? She wants u to propose cos she wants u and is probably happy with u. U shld know better. Don't be biased cos of the money involved. Its not even much. If u don't want to settle down now then talk maturely to her and forget the money. Aint all abt cash

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Anonymous said...

My dear, be a gentleman. Just call the girl and tell her that u are not ready for marriage no. Not even in the next 5 years coming. Encourage her to marry if she sees someone serious, expecially this her ex. Pls, I repeat, pls don't collect any money. It will soil ur reputation where the girl is. That's if u believ u have any to protect.

Anonymous said...

Grab the cash n free the chic. Meanyl, speak with her on the d reality of issue that u guys ar jus wasting time tgda.

bitchplis said...

Bros,collect am sharp sharp...she might eventually leave for the guy without u getting a dime...I was once in a similar situation(not exactly like ur own case though)but she broke up d 5-year relationship n I had already missed d chance to get what I would av gotten if I had left her earlier.think with ur brain n not ur heart

Anonymous said...

Guy; e be like say you are watching too much Naija movies.
This is obviously a made up story!

Anonymous said...

Pls kindly accept dis offer and let her get married,she's no longer a small girl and age is nt on her side,moreova u are nt ready for marriage now.u may decide nt to marry her later and u may nt find it funny wit her!

Anonymous said...

Dude, just take the damn money!! The fact that you are even considering it means you are not in love with her and not even worthy of her time. You actually expressed that you "like" her not "love". Do her a favor and exit to the left!!

Mz_PreshDiva said...

Dnt accept it since de girl in question told de man dat she's in a relationship wit u. Marry her nah. Are u afraid of commitement? Na wa oooo *sigh*

Anonymous said...

To prove you truly love the babe don't collect the money and let her go since you not ready to marry her. She's a women and women don't have the whole time in the world she's 29 and her clock is ticking. Free her for the ex #dimplelove#

Anonymous said...

If he truly loves her, he wont accept the offer cuz money isnt everything. He is just going to give her out to her EX that can possibly sell her off when he is tired

Slimy said...

Bt u aint ready 4 her since dats wot she wants, taking d money wont rilly b a bad idea..

Anonymous said...

Getting married will not make her happy, getting married TO YOU will make her happy ode! It's clear you've made up your mind so why are you asking LIB readers?

Anonymous said...

mumu ni e

Emeka Adizua said...

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Anonymous said...

I think you should let her go since ure not ready to settle down,but I don't think you should collect the money cos a good name is better than silver and gold,ur girlfriend will never forgive you if you do.

Anonymous said...

Dear guy,
u are just one fake guy. how can you "THINK" of selling ur galfrend all bcos of money. If this girl wanted this guy, she would av done so wiout letting u knw, but she wants u and not him, and u are tinking of collecting the money and let her go just like that? Guy!!! u don't love that gal infact u neva felt anything for her u just self centered. all u think about is ursef...u dont want to get married, u need money, u are broke. Everything is just about u and not @least think abt her. She disturbs u abt marriage, YEAH! every gal in her age will do same, yet she doesnt want to leave u for this moneybag and u are THINKING of collecting the money. U better THINK again. Wat if u collect the money and she doesnt marry this guy and then she hates u 4 life, wat kind of a person will u see ursef? Its not easy for u i knw neither it is 4 her so ps reconsider. u can explain to her why u are not ready and tell her wen u probably will be ready and allow her use her tongue to count her teeth, instead of bringing ur self esteem too low for money. GET SENSE

African Sweetheart said...

N500K is enough to leave someone you love for? You obviously don't love her so let her go regardless. smh whilst kmt!

http://africansweetheart.blogspot.co.uk/

Anonymous said...

Gerrout! From d tone of your story, u want d money. Long throat. I'm sure you r a Yoruba boy... Long hiss

Anonymous said...

Tell him to Pay 5m...Are you that Cheap.

Anonymous said...

well dont take the money tell your girlfriend that you think that for now she will have a brighter future with the American Guy,that its your wish that she gets better in life, and the american guy may be what she needs now, As for the money dont take it, if you take it you have sold your girlfriend, now let the guy help you if he wants to maybe not in monetary terms, person that wants to give you 500k can help you 4life. and who knows if its even a bobby trap for you by your girlfriend to see if you will take the cash and finally brother i think there may be no cash anywhere for you oh. 500K? na HOLLYWOOD FILM?

TheChangeIcon said...

Guy the money is huge doh, but if it was true love, you will just let her go without a ransom....

Oyinkan said...

He obviously does not love this girl. Take the money since you clearly value it more than the relationship. You will be doing her a favor.

I also don't believe that he is "not ready" for marriage. He is just not ready to marry HER.

Dimobika Kenechukwu Anthony said...

My. bro... Pray abt it. its a hard decision. First 2 comment... @kayceeoflife

Anonymous said...

you are funny.well since u r not ready to marry no wahala.!but don't you feel ur babe will be so disappointed in you if u collect d money?

MAB said...

Pls free d girl let the other dude marry her, take d money and get away from her life since ur nt ready 2 settle down

Anonymous said...

I THINK YOU HAVE THE ANSWERS TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS. YOUR LOVE FOR HER IS VALUED AT N 500,000.YOU DON'T DESERVE THAT GIRL BECAUSE I THINK YOU HAVE A SMALL MIND. IF YOU BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER ENOUGH THEN YOU BOTH WOULD BE WILLING TO WAIT FOR YOU TO BE READY.(THAT IS IF YOUR REASON FOR NOT BEING READY IS GENUINE). BUT THEN YOU COME ACROSS TO ME AS SOMEONE THAT IS VERY IMMATURE. YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT READY TO EVEN LOVE, TALKLESS OF MARRIAGE SO SPARE THE POOR BABE HER TIME. A PIECE OF ADVICE FOR THE BABE: DO NOT MARRY ANY ONE OF THESE GUYS. N500,000 ? HABA ! YOU HAVE BECOME AND OBJECT FOR SALE.

Anonymous said...

Sit her down,ask her if she wud be happy wid the other man.if she says yes,collect d money n fly out of d picture.

JimCaddy said...

I am going to be very blunt here.. My guy.. As a sharp man, u beta take the 500k and bail.. Leave the b***h alone and run far away. As long as u have 'entered the place' many times, and u are not yet willing to get married, and someone is offering u free moni. My guy don't tink twice, just bail with the moni and leave the babe wit d guy.

Anonymous said...

If you can be easily swayed with only 500k, you obviously dnt love the gal as much as u think u do. U dnt even deserve the chic. Talk to her abt u not bein ready to settle down yet, wateva she decides....so be it.

Lisa London said...

Since you are already considering it and you don't even want to marry her. STOP WASTING HER TIME & let her marry another.

Oluwatosin Abefe said...

Doing her a favour! Or doing urself a favour? Guy if u her nt ready 2 settle down wit her leave her nd let her move on.their is no confusion in dis just greed.

Anonymous said...

you think?... Dude please;it sure sounds like you have already spent the 500k. U may like d lady in question but u definitely don't love her... cos if u do.. u wouldn't be asking LIBers for advice... so for ur peace of mind.. do what u ve already made up ur mind for...
**hissing** oshi...

creammie said...

From ur lines, I can easily depict that what you have for d lady in question isn't true love 'cos if it is, u'll never consider letting her go, not to talk of doing it for money*mere 500,000*...so its better to let her go to someone who obviously loves her and is ready for marriage, and with time and u being out of d picture, I'm sure ha love for him will grow back, cos @ d end of it all, I'm freakn sure you won't evn marry her...so please let her go and be happy while u go en lavish ur *500,000*...buh remember say dah moni go finish one day ooo buh ur babe don go....

Anonymous said...

I tink u shouldn't take it.buh its also nt cool keeping her 2ursef wen u no u nt going 2settle dwn wit her.u shld let her go buh not cos of d money.

Anonymous said...

You are a complete idiot for even thinking of equating her (you fiance) with the N500,000.
You are a coward. So if she wins a jackpot of say N20 Million, shebi u'll come back begging.
@ the N 500K being a lot to you, I think you are jobless because if you weren't, you will release how 'small' it is. Guy, better stick to that lady and marry her. You are 29, I wonder if it is when u get to 49 that you'll get married.

zee said...

Pls take d moni $ walk out of her life $ stop wasting her time.it obvious u don't love her like u claim. Just 500k is wot in entering ur eye. Pls let her go to some1 who is ready to pay all 4 her cos he loves her. At 29 she has no time cos u never might be ready

Anonymous said...

If u are not ready at 29 then u will never b! U didn't say if u have got a job or if ur take home is reasonable. Be that as it may be it shows ur 100% Niger. If u really love her u set her free without any money attached that way u set ur heart free. Money isn't always everything esp.dat one offered in exchange for love. Don't sell her for a couple of notes. Let her go dear. U never know. OZ

cutemumm said...

If you really want her to be happy then don't collect the money..seriously, 500k for the love you have for her?? Oh pls it's not worth it.the money looks much but trust me, it's not ..Collecting the money makes you a cheap looser.

LOVE said...

Hmmmmm....My Dear pls go ahead collectin' d money,coz at d end u stl won't marry Her(u not ready anytime soon buh She is) so y loose both?(You Don't Love Her Else You Won't Even Think Of It)God pls touch our Government to legalise Lesbianism IJN Amen!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Well, if u love your girl pls keep her, but if really u don't love her pls free her cause u are obstructing are chance of getting married dis might also affect u in future cause what goes around turns around.

Anonymous said...

Y are u dying of hunger.. Dat should be the only reason to accept.. Trust dia are a lot of girls out dia... Bt how many of dem are really nice andd more so trust me happiness is a gift .. Wen it comes to u take it and hold on tight to it.. So don't take the money.. And wats ur reason for not wanting to settle down naw.. Deee

Anonymous said...

If dats ow cheap d luv u av 4 her is, den u re just in lust wee her, no love, anywais fflw ur heart nd mind, she b happy gettn married to u, noh jus gettn married to anybody

Mutiat said...


Nonentity, 500k only! U such a cheap skate *hiss*. Do you know what it means to love? The fact that you are considering this means you do not love her. So, just let her go to a man who doesn't care how much it will cost him to get her.


Btw, did it ever cross your mind that it may be a test? He probably made a bet with her that you will take the offer. Mumu like you :p

Last words, ''True love doesn't come easy.''

Until my next comment, arriverderci!

Linlinblogger said...

You are such a greedy monster. You want her to be happy and you would be doing her a favor by letting her get married. Your greed has indeed blinded you or you were never in love with the girl. Take them money and in a few years from now you will regret this decision. Good wives are hard to come by but gold diggers are a dime a dozen which is what you will run into when you take the money. You deserve the money, not the lady.

Anonymous said...

leave the N500,000 and also let her marry since you are not ready yet. 29years is ripe for a woman if she has a suitor. Do this and you will be blessed beyond your believe.

Anonymous said...

That you even considered taking that money means you do not really want to be with that woman in the long term. Nobody really cares about whether you are a good or bad person you need to break up with her. You don't want her and are not ready to marry and she clearly is. Now whether you take the money or not is up to you. And if you really care about her as a person you would tell her that this dude is trying to "buy" her back. what she does or doesn't do with that info is up to her.
Sidenote: who pays off someone boyfriend to leave them so they can date them..hmmm sounds controlling and manipulative to me.

james charles said...

U never loved that lady dude, I no u have been cheating on her all this while. Just tell us u re a poor fool and stop this your up and down stories.

Toluwalope said...

I'll strongly advice you not to take the money....talk to your babe and let her sincerely decide whom she wants to be with and aside you already sounded willing to let go and not being competitive at all so let her go but if you think she worths keeping then don't let her go even for a million dollar after all no amount of money can pay for the peace and joy a good woman brings........

Anonymous said...

Hahaha u don watch babe for sale by basketmouth and bovi.hungry boy

Anonymous said...

Take d cash and go or jst go without cash! Dnt kill her future ok! ( ˘̶̀˘̯˘̶́)

Kayler Odeh said...

What a useless question you are asking. ..you both are 29 and you not ready for marriage. And the way you are sounding is not like you ready to marry her out all..and now someone is ready to marry her you dnt want to let go..my friend leave her to marry joor since you not ready And dnt collect any money. ..if you have a heart at all

Kayler Odeh said...

What a useless question you are asking. ..you both are 29 and you not ready for marriage. And the way you are sounding is not like you ready to marry her out all..and now someone is ready to marry her you dnt want to let go..my friend leave her to marry joor since you not ready And dnt collect any money. ..if you have a heart at all

Jbankz said...

Dont tak d Moni bt xplain 2her that ur nt readi 2marry coz Heaven wil fall on u if afta she waitz fr u nd u dont marry her.if she wil b happy wif em den let her go

Beolar said...

If you really like her to the extent of wanting to leave her, DO NOT TAKE THE MONEY...

soso said...

4ni thing is u dnt love her,won't d money finish 1 day,ur obviously nt worth d stress so let sm1 who can take care of her handle her properly she's a lady wen she gets 2 30 her eggs will drop in number relieve her pls.u dnt deserve her

Anonymous said...

Take d offer & walk away if u r not ready to settle down soon. Age is not really on d girl's side

Cute G said...

Love answers it all.Are U wt her cos u wanna spend d rest of ur life wt her?Cos I never heard U say "Love".rather U spoke more of "Like".If U re just hanging around her nd do not want to marry her even in d nearest future,let her go.U seem more interested in the money.Remember"Money cannot buy love"

Anonymous said...

Lol you are just not a man to collect the 500k .poor man

Is even the girl that need to borrow brain and brush you aside and settle down. Wonder if she on the known about this offer coz it can solve part of her marriage bill.

Lin

Anonymous said...

That shows you don't love the girl. Is your relationship for monetary gain? You are selling out your found love.

I doubt if the girl will like this either. You must be a bad unlovable person, selfish and unreliable lover, after loving you, you sold out her love to some one who abandoned her before and ran away. If you miss this highly focus lady you may end up marry someone that does not love you, then you will cry come meet the LIBERS again. Go away! mumu

enobong effiong said...

Very funny!Do wateva u fink is ryt...4 u 2 post ds here it means u have a conscience buh I'd advice you 2 do wat makes u hppy...No1 can judge u just God...if u feel leaving her is the best talk to her and hear wt she has to say...

Anonymous said...

You dey even reason Am? You really Like her but you aint ready to settle down, so lemme guess,you won't be ready anytime soon because you sound very financially unstable...You're even Lucky to see money offer before Leaving her,better grab it...what if the man carry money sweep her off her feet and didn't offer you a penny?Truth is she'd still Leave you anyways(may not neccesarily be for this particular man) because @ 29 am sure she really wants to start a family...If you Like no collect money,dey dia dey play Romeo! LMAO







PRETTY GIRL

Anonymous said...

Must u collect money to make her happy by letting her go? U never loved her because if u do, u will be ready to settle down with her. U only love her pussy.

Anonymous said...

O boy, hahahahaha, na hard decision oh, money matter, let her go since u r not ready for marriage now, forget the money and set her free to marry her old friend


Queen

Anonymous said...

You have never loved her, pls let her go without collecting the money. It will make her feel sadder knowing u collected money to let her go.

Anonymous said...

Its obvious you're not looking at a future with this woman, cos if you were, you wouldn't come here asking this question. The thought of losing her(or someone else having her) alone would make you shut the idea off.

You keep using the word 'like'not 'love' anyways. So please let her go. You would eventually hurt her, when it comes to it.

Whether or not you chose to take the money depends on your moral stand.

folajomi agoro said...

Tell him to make it 1m

Anonymous said...

Indecent proposal. I suggest you take the money and buy a pig.

Anonymous said...

Endtime.....Qee

folajomi agoro said...
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folajomi agoro said...

Tell him to make it 1m

Anonymous said...

Dude! I see yƠ̴͡U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt rily love dis gal in question, and 29yrs old! A 29yrs old man is diff frm a 29yrs old woman! Pls dnt waste the lady's time! If yƠ̴͡U̶̲̥̅̊ are not ready. Also yƠ̴͡U̶̲̥̅̊ hav not even given the lady hope as per wen yƠ̴͡U̶̲̥̅̊ are gona be ready....

Anonymous said...

I knw is a lot of money but remember money is not everytin,I advice u go to her and express ursf. Tell her how much u loved her but u are not ready to settle down yet then advice her not to wait for u if she got who she love she can go ahead and marry. If u collect d money that means u hv betray her love for u.

Anonymous said...

Its obvious you're not looking at a future with this woman, cos if you were, you wouldn't come here asking this question. The thought of losing her(or someone else having her) alone would make you shut the idea off.

You keep using the word 'like'not 'love' anyways. So please let her go. You would eventually hurt her, when it comes to it.

Whether or not you chose to take the money depends on your moral stand.

modaconfesor said...

First of, you're very selfish so don't even try to make it look like it's about her. Secondly you're greedy...I'm so disgusted right now, I hope she leaves ur not-man-enough-ass without d oda guy giving u jack!

BONARIOS BABY said...

I'm so short of words,all I can say is dat devil is using ur brain to play abang..

Jess Ann said...

guy take d money joor.

Nego said...

U don't Love her at the first place, bcos if u do u wldnt let her go for any amount..There is a big difference between Love and Infactuation..

ujuluv said...

Abeg na watin u still dey wait for....since u re nt ready 2 marry now. And d lady hv been askin u 2 go on wth d marriage stuff, don't u fink may d time d lady wait for u n u did nt meet up she wil may go bck 2 her ex.... See guy don't be dum mehn....wise up ok.....am a lady n lady crossin 29,30 wil nt hv time 2 wait any longer cos all she need is settlen dwn......so dnt stay silent n lose d lady n also lose d money cos na dat one bad pass......l still remain who l am (ujuLuuv)

NG said...

Don't live her if you truly love her

Anonymous said...

You be idiot, na owu go kill u, dey dere de form lover boi, if dat girl eye open she go leave u, even 5K u no go see..beta collect dt 500k and upgrade..

Anonymous said...

if you want to leave her, leave her but let it not be becuse you were paid to do it. what happened to integrity? SMH

Anonymous said...

You said it all...You're not ready to get married to her n you want her to be happy and her getting married would make her happy.
So if you think you will be ready to settle down in next 1yr don't end the relationship with her, but if NOT end the relationship with her ASAP and don't do it for the MONEY "Don't take the Money". Do it for her happiness! on the other end it can be a setup.

Anonymous said...

Mtchewww!U want to make us ur partners in crime by telling u to collect the 500k..since u re not ready to settle down yet, then let her go with a guilty free conscience!must u collect the money...don't belittled yourself Jare!!!

Poopoo said...

U don't deserve her.

Anonymous said...

See ur life! D rzn guys are unreliable, he's here nt rly in luv wt her plus nt ready 4her whereas on d oda hand, sm1 else s dying 2hav d same gurl! Pls tk d money cs I knw deep dwn u want 2 cs u evn insinuated so... #LADIES BE WISE!
~D great anonymous!

Anonymous said...

You are certainly a fool. At 29 years, you think 500,000 is a lot of money.

Since you are even considering it, take the money and let the babe go...after all, you don't really like her and its only the sex that you are enjoying. Its also obvious you will end up no marrying her.

Anonymous said...

N500,000 is too small, if he can raise it to N5m then you can make a deal

*sexy diva*

Anonymous said...

Hian u re already a badt person for thinkin abt accept accepting d money, its obvious u don't love her,so u guys should talk maturely n let her move to her next phase of life and hapiness! Express!

Anonymous said...

500k only?? are u a cattle rearer? hissssss. dulling guy! the babe bera do herself a favour and ditch ur cheap ass!!!

Niyi Daramola said...

What if you collect the money and armed robbers come for it, forget his useless money, he thinks mone can buy everything. If he cant get her back by trying the he shud hands off. If I'm the gal I'll poison u if u accept the offer

angela said...

U are just a foolish young man who doesn't even love his gf of 2yrs and obviously do not deserve her love...#my opinion

Jeez Louise said...

Firstly- YES, it does make you a bad person.

Secondly- take the money, you'll be doing this girl a huge favour by getting out of her life, especially if 500k is the value you have placed on her.

Thirdly- If I were you, I'd tell her the truth, after you've taken the money, obviously. She deserves to know that the two men in her life are both low life scum- but don't forget to get your money first, after all that's what this is all about abi? Money

Anonymous said...

500,000 naira.nigga ask for more.

Anonymous said...

Mr confused are u listening to yourself at all??? I know ur type.. Biko kindly leave d babe alone for a more desrving guy cos u obviously don't deserve her!

Niyi Daramola said...

What if you collect the money and armed robbers come for it, forget his useless money, he thinks money can buy everything. If he cant get her back by trying the he shud hands off. If I'm the gal I'll poison u if u accept the offer

Anonymous said...

See Mugu that they have set trap for and he is using his own leg to walk inside. First of all if it is truly her ex that called you it might be a trap to prove that you dont love her, if you accept the money not only will you lose your gfriend but you have no chance of getting money from this dude. If its not a trap and there is real money for you then your a bad person for even considering taking it. What kind of juju does this guy want to do with the poor girls head that he wants her so bad, if you release her to him them your conscience will suffer long after the money is spent. If you dont want to be with her leave her and then let her decide if she wants that dude or not for now you love her and care for her then take her like you would protect your younger sister and do what is in her best interest.

Anonymous said...

Guy please fuck off....No one cares what you do...Stop wasting her time and hit the road. Money or No Money....

Anonymous said...

you want to make her happy or you want to collect the money. you better confess

Anonymous said...

Lol u are a useless person, you obviously dnt love her
Please break up with her and don't use her to make money.

Anonymous said...

if u love her and she want to marry the man, let her marry. Don't collect money. 500k is just figures

pwitie B said...

Na ole u be wat is d geh stil waitin 4 let ha marry ha ex jor its obvious his crious bt tis guy onli God knws hau much longer he mite wnt 2 wait ad bcos of 500,00k he wnts 2 trade their luv.

Anonymous said...

collect the 500k and let her go.then u find a 19,20yr old girl...thanks to fg,u can even get a 13yr old sef. pay off her bf with 25k frm d 500k and Everyone goes home happy.

maryam said...

No man no cry

Anonymous said...

Let her go, you don't deserve her.
Anon xyz

Anonymous said...

if u love her and she want to marry the man, let her marry. Don't collect money. 500k is just figures

Anonymous said...

Please tell him to make it 2M what is 500k smh get enough money that can console you and even start you a business then another down side is he might be playing you like when you accept the money he will go tell the girl and she will leave you like you looking at her like 500k its a win or loss situation for u.Dont text don't email don't bbm him about the money because he might not give u if he decides to show the girl she will leave you and you lose everything.Now your options is this call him don't let him call you,if he wants to send money let him send through someone she doesn't know so you are ok incase it gets messy.Remember once you let go of an honest girl who likes your broke ass over an American boy aka greencard u might never meet someone who loves you and you will regret it for the rest of your life.Goodluck

sarah said...

Hmm I think u should ask d girl if she can still wait 4 u. If she can't u should let her go n take d money. Pls don't brk her heart

Anonymous said...

You seem to have already figured it out.......Apparently your heart does not beat for her.......do her the favour

Sane Mind said...

young man from all you have said so far you are just a lazy man that is not yet ready to settle down and i see that the N500K means so much money to you and you are already salivating to collect it,,please collect the money and move on with your life and may God not allow use your ordained wife as girlfriend(vice versa)!

sarah said...

Linda better post my comment ooo

Akingboye Damilola said...

Ok, I support that you take money, but 500k is pretty cheap, if he can increase it then perfect

Apple said...

Hmmm...Human beans and their love for money..Hmmm.. Are you that poor? What is 500,000 Naira? That girl is wasting her time with you! YOU DON'T LOVE HER!

Desewa said...

Sincerely,all I see is greed n selfishness.if u not ready to settle down n u want her to b happy y not jus let her marry d man without you collecting d@ money.then we knw u doin her a favour n not bin greedy.Also u collecting d@ money means money can buy ur love n for christ's sake just #500,000?d@'s jus ridiculous + d gurl is gonna b really dissapointed in u.she wants u n if u cnt give her wat she wants @ least dnt sell her love 4 jus #500,000.

Anonymous said...

Nice idea ur galz hapiness matas to u talk to her bout it let her knw u nt ready for marriage nw

Anonymous said...

And u want to throw her love for you out of d wındow bcos of 500k.dnt u thınk she loves u more than the guy and dats why she ıs stıckıng wıth you ınstead of dumpıng ur ass and goıng off her ex.better not touch dat money man no matter how temptıng ıt ıs.

Anonymous said...

na wah for u oo. sure u don't luv dis gurl dats y ur contemplating the dough...

Anonymous said...

The girl need to do her self a favour by moving on with her life and her ex do not need to offer you nothing,just stay clear and do not ruin her life and future,i dont wanna use the word gold digger.leave her life alone until you get ready to settle down.

Mzz Becky Wright said...

Shineke! What's 500,000... Tufiakwa.

Anonymous said...

abeggie collect the money and leave d gal alone cos u dont really luv her. stop wastin her tym.

Anonymous said...

You don't love her if you really did as you have claimed let her go & don't take the money. That is if you really care & love.

Anonymous said...

D mere thought of it makes u a bad person,damn guy u harsh ooo

Nifemi olubodun said...

Na u know ooooo!!! The choice is yours...Ain't you a man???? If you have her best interest at heart, and you're not ready free her, she's getting old. Show you love her by rejecting the money!!!!

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