From a LIB reader:
So I just met this guy 2 yrs ago and so far, its been a good
relationship. Could it be better? Definitely. I say this because he
doesn't know how to kiss me deeply without leaving lots of his saliva in
my mouth which I usually have to swallow because I don't want to hurt
his pride by going to spit right after he kisses me. I've talked to him
about it though jokingly. He says its because he's usually so turned on
when we kiss deeply that he doesn't have control over how much he
salivates. Do I leave a small bowl at the head of the bed when ever we
want to get it on? Or do I say Adieu to this man. I don't know what to
do as I have my own saliva and don't need extra. Advise please.
Lol @ I have my own saliva. I've been there...not the best situation to be in. Any advice for her?
305 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 305 of 305Stop kissing deeply den. Surface kissing will do, dats how I manage
Just wen I tot, its been long we had a mail published on ur blog. Kudos Linda. U neva disappoint
chai woe betide you if him moth dey smell....smh
Put it back in his mouth!
Ayama. ahn ahn
U never ready 4 d relationship,cos if u truely love dis guy dat shldnt b sometin dat nids an advice 2.well wish u luck in seekin 4 an advice
*Vomits intestine. I have never kissed a guy. I hope it goes well when I do. If the first dude I kiss does stuff like this. It surely will ruin d art for me.
Yuck,oh my gosh,some ladies are suffering and some men are really not ready to accept their flaws out of male ego,I think you should teach him how to kiss and put his saliva under check,if he truly loves you,he will do that,if he doesn't,then refuse to kiss him,he will automatically come around...chima.
Ohh my gosh... I have the same problem, and he thinks its sexy... Anyway I just go into the bathroom and spit, I just can't take it...
So you think by telling us about the saliva, he will automatically stop pouring the saliva??? Better tell him how you feel than bottling it up inside unless you don't mind a gallon of saliva down your throat, fool!
Some pipu sef, every small problem they wee bring to social media. Before social media came nko? Mschewwwww!
Sweetie,jst plan 4 the nigguh one day. Save ur forest of saliva one day nd pour it all in... Dat nigguh must hv a dose of his medicine
My dear if u love hm teach him... Nobdy is perfect bt jst creat perfection out of him in ur own way... And as 4 u linda bad belle... U v nva bn in ha shoes so dnt lie
u may have to have a serious discussion with him abt it. he has to make conscious efforts to keep his saliva to himself. its nt enof to break up tho
Saliva wey dey smell. This is just disgusting!
That's disgusting nau,it could b a disease because I don't find that normal.
We are all leaner and have feeling uncontrol part in some part of d system, unforuntly, u just discover ur guy own, teach he, first of all feel bad and hard ur face after d kiss, oooo dear u done d wrong thing again and throu out, he will feel bad and start to learn
Hian...! It's not hard jor. Use style and be sending the saliva back to his mouth na . Lmao
Lmaoooooooo that's hilarious but Babe 2 years is a long time. You've been managing naa so manage more lol.
Jokes aside, stop kissing deeply! Plenty of short, quick kisses are just as effective sometimes. Also try kissing around his mouth and neck more deeply instead of his mouth.
Eya, this is a real problem sha. Pele lol
My man leaves his saliva in my mouth 2 after kisn,mkn me avoid kisn him wen mkn luv.its so annoying
Omo ds one crious o! Anyway dear, u ve got 2 b bold n make him realize d need 2 control himself wen u guyz r in act!If he luvs u he will sure work on it n with time change.But if nt abeg,no b only him dey o!
If u lov him,y cnt u swallow his saliva?
ewwwwwww! disgusting. kiss of life!
just try and let him knw,luks irritating though
Lol rubbish yarns
Babe nawaa U oh u dey fall hand abegi. let me ask,what do u understand by the word.(Sexual Intercourse).
Then if u know it that very one u ar angry about follow or may B try Rev. Sister tins .......u knw.................Ogaoooooooooo
Lol.... Very simple, wen u guys want to stop d action...put everything back in his mouth....kp it like dat all d time he'll stop i tell u.
My girl actualy hs told me politly she dnt like d way I kiss dat her lips is small I shud nt cover it all wen we kiss she want 2 b in control 2,my dear I wz gr8tful she told me coS I hate pretence.
Young lady just try and leave some siliva in his own mouth.vise vasa
Just tell hm wat to do or u make sure u put ur mouth on tht other thn tht will get him excited so u won't hve to kiss soo much. If he's a good guy then u better nt leave hm over smthn sooo trivial.
Total rubbish...u mean u took in is goddamn saliva all in the name of kissing....it suck big time....totally disgusting ........if he can't control it ...den let him go....d guy must be insane to say he can't control him
sef
The man is suffering from Beri-Beri,.
Eeew! Dts super duper.....disgusting! Abeg move on joor...chemistry goes a looooong way in determining a relatnshp. I can jst imagin...srzly wnt yu be turnd off? My ex lykd lickn my ears leavn it wet!!! Twas rily irritating(we dnt split cuz of dt oo) nywaiz talk to him bout it cuz wen yu start being irritated leads to being cranky n nt overlookn silly mistkes....yu noe wt I mean. Best of luck!
You don't have to leave him for that...it's not nice I know,but what if the next guy is worse than this...,I guess you shouldn't kiss too long,give short breaks in between kisses when you begin to almost feel the saliva,break the kiss,kiss his cheek or neck,then go back to kissing,he will know and adjust...best of luck babe
this is really sad, teach him how to kiss girl
ewwwwh nastyyy! u are not even married to him and u are drinking his spit... God help u, a sinning life is a sad life.
*Jesus Christ Saves* Romans 5...get connected before its too late!
Nasty...yuck
Come out boldly ªnd tell him joor..mtchseww. Is his mouth to wide dat he cnt control his saliva? Men tho. Yuck..throw up!
Hmmm, I've been in that situation too. Try to be the one on top, that way, u hav more control over what comes into ur mouth. As he puts it in ur mouth, u r pushing it back to him, so he is gonna have to swallow! It works 4 me. Goodluck.
Lol! Try teaching him, if not keep swallowing. But you can have him watch toke mackinaw's vblog on kissing
also drink his urine join, not only his saliva. #nonsense# repent nw or...
is all part of love unless u dont love him but if u do teach him how to do it better.i dont need to tell u is a sin becos u have been hearing it in ur church.
Sinnin? @ G,kissin aint a sin. Read ur bible well,finger pointer! Girl, I feel ur pain(or disgust). U can't leave him coz of dis. U v 2 teach him witout hurtin his pride. Go softly n shld hold back n swallow his spit b4 anoda round. Just Sayin... D curious 1
eeeeew. I wont be able to swallow. I will spit out immediately. Ughh!
Sharrap thr u hypocrite! Na ur type dey dive man when dem put off lite for bedroom.
Sofar saliva does not kill person,i advice u to Continue swallowing,if u really love him.maybe the man 2 dey chop "ejule"(snail).hahahahahaha.madness!!
Read tokemankiwa b log, her last post was on how to kiss, stylishly make him watch it with you... good luck. but if you love him that's doesn't matter. Lol
fountain of saliva ah pele o LMAO. Maybe keep a wad of cotton wool in your mouth which you can change regularly. Bowl at foot of bed ke? Mba! You waw-waw for that kain suggestion sef. Das how you end up with that araoko man in the first place!
Leave a bowl by ur bedside, when u spit out make him notice. Then he will see u don't like it nd it might make him start been cautious of d amount of saliva he releases wen kissin intimately.... P.S don't ever tink of leaving a good man for probelms u can easily resolve. Dere re not lots of dem left.goodluck
Lol.... Few people know that staph aureus is highly contagious and can be contacted tru kissing, let alone swallowg buckets of another person's saliva. May God help us.
Plz ma dear,u might need a medical advice here,it might be a psycho-social problem.ok!
Shut dat hole u call a mouth,if ur so clinged 2 God how come u hav tym 2 come 2 dis blog,read msgs nd comment,tot u wl b busy wt prayer meetings nd evangelical work...na ur typ dey pack into man house b4 dey evn say cn we date...aunty post my comment abeg
And you didnt vomit? You have really endured. Keep enduring for love sake.
@ vomit into his mouth.... Very funny... Hehehe... Well, I tink u shud let him kno dT it irritates u! Cos swallowing someone else's saliva is very unhygienic.. Saliva has numerous bacteria.. I'm sure he kisses u in d morn before brushing! Abegooo... Throway spit! Hehehe
Ah
U're wicked sha o
Leave a good man cos of somefin d@ can be managed?
My dear
Good men don finish 4 mkt o
It takes extra grace nd patience 2 find dem
So if u're leaving dis 'good one',
Good luck 2 u in ur search 4 anoda 'good one' wit good kissing abilities.......
***JANTA***
I see no big deal bow dt, if d saliva was coming wit money or human hair, am very sure he is goin 2 b d best hubby 4 u.If it is irritating 2 u den stp kissing.
I dnt see dis as a best reason for breaking a relationship, most esp wen u in person termed it "a good one". So long d guy is not having a bad breath/odour I think u shld jst see I as a sacrifice/price u pay for love. Come to think of it sebi na kiss u call am which involve a mouth to mouth thing, therefore there is no way u'l avoid have certain qty of saliva in ur mouth but in his own case u shld jst it as a cross to bear, all for love( genuine 1 I guess)
There are some things that are best not to be told! This can be solved within you both
I no its funny my sis, but I wil tel to always give a dose of Atropine b4 d kissing. Try it and u wil no d Lord is gud.
True dat, best comment so far
All na loooove!
To every action dir should be equal and opposite reaction or more'.....if he deposits 50cl of saliva in ur mouth, babes u give him 1litre of saliva back...lol...he go give himself brain'
#kaybams#
I love a lady's saliva in my mouth than putting it in hers, turns me onnnn
My dear if that is his only fault and you can manage stick with him, my own advise that is
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I actually av a girlfriend like that..and I did the ADIEU thingy......no time #Am2Xclusive
*Linda. Whats the diff btw his semen in her couchi and his saliva in her mouth? If you don't have a prblm with one, you shouldnt have with the other. Women too day complain
dats d best option ;-)
I just threw up in my mouth, ...which is what you should do in his. Then he will stop.
Dude is simply epileptic..... he'll bite of ur tongue / lips very soon....... it's just a matter on time, simply enjoy the saliva period while it last dear
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The guy is a bad kisser. To do the kissing game, you must make sure you keep the mouth as dry as possible as clean as possible. Keep saliva out. Thatz the first rule in kissing. Since he has failed it, I wont suggest you kick him out, I'd rather you tutor him. If he continues the shit, stop releasing your mouth for him to abuse and misuse. The journey to the end may have begun.
Men! U r wicked. Lov ur sense of humour though.
Mirror image him also by leaving a flood of spittle both in his mouth & his lips. #Disgusting.
Lol#--perfect advice--d reason is bcos he has sucked 2 many P####ies and salivate a whole lot in d process...dat led to d excessive secretion of salivation...#as a p##siologist,i can help it..sowee him..add me up on 419UB419..or call 08123456789..
I swear, you get mouth. I swear. Lol
Go and watch toke makinwa's video on ''The act of kissing'' . That might go a long way to help
I dont think dumping is the best thing my current girlfriend whom i am her first everything (too serious with books) she basically drips siliva on my face when we ave sex and she doing the sitting position but hey i dont complain because she has the kindest heart,wonderful behaviour and sweet as well and we have been seeing for 2years sho why leave her cos she drips on me when we ave sex??
Hahahahhaha OMG. @linda dating an epileptic. Dts insane Lmao
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He can't stop...
Not his fault do.
His salivary glands is so active
Ma advice is: stop french kissing
If u cnt stand it 4 a lifetym... Leave him!
Or u mite jus make him suffer in marriage.
If u can, den deal wif it, n' don't go snooping around 4 kisses from oda men. Stay faithful.
J.
U cant take ur buddy's saliva, and u complain its much.... u r not serious for that Union, Ur still young probably, and feel u have all the chance to hook up again, Wait till no one comes to u again then u begin Fasting, and Stretch marks Draw map of non existent country on u, then....stop talking rubbish
Do u knw wat herpes virus is?
Jezz stop swallowin som other persons saliva,u would come down wit herpes infection very soon,and plus u might just collect candidiasis along with it
if you can kiss him you should not find his saliva irritating.but seriously you need to really discuss abt it together.dats d way u go abt an issue in a relationship for it 2 last
Men dts soo gross and insane
two they say is far better than one, therefore enjoy every bit of it...
Simple! Exactly!! Shikena!!!
let him be in a position where he swallows his saliva.for instance him being under and never on top of you when you guys do stuff.just saying....thinking it might work
if you cant cope after forget it,cos in future you might complain and it will lead to a fight or divorce
i once had a boyfriend like dat .it really sucks. my advice is to talk to him about it.
go back to school...
...silly...
...moi (it's French for 'me'..u just hear people talk am, u wan follow follow)
...dumb...not 'dump'
...founded...given all the above, I'll just assume you don't know how to spell this too and I'm sure I'll be right
Love sha in all of this?
My dear anything you cant manage in a relationship especially sexually should be said gently in a loving way. I will give you two examples. My boyfriend then (now my husband) used to tickle my navel during foreplay. I hated it cos it used to pain me after a while. One day i removed his finger from there to other parts i preferred. He got the drift and the navel shit stopped till today.
2. fingering me there during sex. i would remove his hand away gently and one day he asked me ''dont you like it'' i said i do but i am just too conscious dear that place is too delicate. Can we do that stuff when we've had a bath or when you consciously wash your hands before sex. only then will i feel really really ok. End of story, so tell him lovingly. and if he does it again push it back to his mouth or gently break away and say ''dear i told you'' HE WILL GET THE DRIFT.
I'm sorry. I don't think you are mature enough for a serious relationship, and I do not think you are in love with this dude. You termed the relationship a good one. You want to leave him because he cannot kiss well, as if kissing is what builds a real lasting relationship, or as if this is an issue that can't be managed.
Please leave him. Dump him, so some other deserving woman looking for a good man will take him up and love him, and help him manage his flaws. And I see other people with your same mindset supporting you. Please leave this guy, you're not in love. Imagine sending this to Linda Ikeji's blog. So what would you do if you had serious issues? Leave this relationship and free this guy to find the love he deserves.
ashawo girl y kiss d guy if u dont want to swallow saliva?
NOT A BIG DEAL???!!! open your mouth and let me spit in it, when you swallow it, we'll talk again. Tell him to control it, or kiss like the picture, from on top or dump him for the person who posted this first comment and find yourself another man. The Hell?
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW LINDA, D HEADLINE ALONE IS IRRITATING + I'M EATING.
OMG i no fit laugh again!
He drools cos he's nervous....you can't do nuffin 'bout it until he gets some confidence around girls...try talking to him..if not the decision is yours to put up with it or not.
hahahhaha..obviously the guy is not a good kisser. You can teach him though..if u think he's worth it.
Well if u really love him.. u have to cope with that flaw.. yes it can be hard but when ppl re in love they mke scacrifies.. if u nt ready to make dat scarifice... rethink if u really honestly love him.. unconditionally...
You've been dating for two years? then u both should be friends& b able2 tell each other stuff that you don't like! u see y communication is key in relationships...
Ewwwwwwwww!!!run babes run
Loool...help me tell her..
Abeg the man mouth clean @ all? just dey swallow plenty venom... He might even end up getting u pregnant tru that.. Eewwww
ewwww!!!! I feel you, i had a bf that was a terrible kisser, please if he has not changed after all this time you need to kiss him goodbye...
God forbid! What won't I see on dis blog? Disgusting!
YOU STILLL DEY DULLL? YOU NO KUKU BREAK UP, ABI YOU WAN USE THE SALIVA BAFF?
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I had a girlfriend who used to salivate into my mouth, but i kinda liked it. she would hold my head hard and kinda like drool into my mouth wihle kissing passionately. yummy. i used to just wipe off the spit on the back of my hand afterwards what the heck. do the same. wipe your mouth on the back of your right hand
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