Dear LIB readers: I'm dating three women, help me pick one to marry
From a male LIB reader
My fellow readers I'm in a dilemma and I need your help. I'm currently dating three ladies; one I've been dating since 2007, we have a child together and she's a really good woman but I'm beginning to find her boring. She acts more like my mother than my girlfriend. The second one I've been dating since 2010. I met her when my first girlfriend and I were taking a break after our child was born. After we got back together, my relationship with the second lady continued. She's from a rich home and spoils me silly but I find her too controlling and too jealous. The third girl I met via Facebook just last year. She lives in Canada and wants me to join her there. I love these women differently and I was going to play around for a few more years but they are all now insisting on marriage. The problem is I don't know which one to propose to. Should I pick the woman who has been with me the longest and has a child for me, or the lady who has a lot of money and can give me an easy life or the one in Canada who doesn't give me drama like the other two? Help me, please.!
First of all (introduction...LOL), it is only a big fat weakling or as people call it dese days (pussy) that stays wif a woman cos of what she's givin him esp materially! Thats just a step away from being a gigolo! Secondly, as much as I would say u should stay wif the mother of ur child, you really need to think it thru (at least u are lucky that the world now sees nothing wrong with having baby mamas in every state). Thirdly, the Canadian woman! are u sure u dont wanna stay with her because of a green card, and dyu know if shes blind or cripple or sth. Dyu even know if u are going there to become a houseboy or she just wants a sperm donor! Oh boy! be wise, some questions are too dumb for the 21st century!
Its pple lyk u dat giv love a bad name.playing wit d hearts of women who truly love u (as in d case of ur baby mama) Cheat oshi. I had a two timing bastard lyk urself for a bf..y'all will get d whores u rily deserve in d end.she will sleep wit ur dad,ur brothers,ur frnds n all ur neighbours. Dnt call God dat tym o,jst knw its karma.
As far as am concerned, you are already married to your baby mama cos all you r experiencing with here now is what you see in marriage, so stick with the devil you know.
Linda this ur recent background is fustrating especially when the comments are much.i could not read anything from this post.pls do something about it.thank u.***prechey baby***
Polygamy has never been an issue in Africa, in fact, it is the very true symbol of an African man. Go ahead and marry the 3 of them, in which case, you get to enjoy the benefits included - Fundings by the Canadian and holiday trips at intervals; the over-pampering with gift by the one born with a silver spoon and of course babies and advice from your mother-cum-girlfriend. This comes at the cost of each of them exerting a certain level of control over you and your activities. Go for it, son.
And then when the one you eventually choose sleeps around you will wonder what you did wrong. Idiot! Like that other goat that came to say he felt like stabbing his wife in the eye because she cheated on him when he himself had cheated on her. Many Nigerian men are demons in human skin,honestly
This generation of men are possessed. So you really believe that God who is always watching, will let you take your time to pick the one that will be best for your selfish ass and then you'll live happily ever after. I really hate the nature of men. Selfish and narrow minded.
Marrying any of them will not last because he does not love them. The one in Canada could be a scammer collecting money from the him.
The one with the baby is wasting her life with him. The rich one is the one that he likes for money.
Best advice is not to force yourself into marriage until you fall in love. Love matters and goes beyond marriage. Love can sustain the terrible side effect of marriage. Publish my comment.
u guys advisn ds stupid man are nt srz o... waht kinda foolish question is dat... 'wu do i marry'? . Ure a lower creature and need 2 be cremated. gadammit. Idiat!!!
Fucking asshole........ No female should marry this dumbass. Girls pls respect yourselves, this is a classic example of a child trapped in a man's body.
Hey guys I need help here! Am a young lady who has 3 men in her life right now. I ve been dating one 4 ova six yrs now bt he is jobless, d second is married bt he jst a complete gentle man I.e my ideal man while d third is cool bt stingy. I love dis 3 guys and now am tired of cheating on them. Pls I need advice on whom 2 stick wit. And linda I want u 2 comment on this as well!
I dint no i controled ur life! My family is not rich, i just go out of my way 2 make sacrifices 2 make u comfortable. U dnt hav 3 women. U hav 2. Havnt u noticed dat av started withdrawin? Stick 2 ur baby mama n ur canada chick. Ur a man cnt kip workin my arse off 4 u. Just so u can form false swagg. C ur frendz, all decently marid, hw many rely on dia chicks? But u colect frm me 4 ur baby mama. Yes i no all dat! M i ngry! NO, cos somwhere som guy is waitin 2 have me. N he wnt be a FINANCIAL LEECH
I feel you but no need to insult and curse him. It's obvious he's a weak, shameless, lazy and irresponsible man with no morals. If only these women knew his true colours... God forbid for this type to cross my path in life or that of anyone I know.
Lazzy ass he must be very sick you had better stick to your baby mother and work hard to take care of them a real guy to talk like this u don't represent a ,man at all
Lazzy ass he must be very sick you had better stick to your baby mother and work hard to take care of them a real guy to talk like this u don't represent a ,man at all
Honestly nigerian people don't say enough,why not tell ur first wife she's too motherly and its making her less attractive???? Why keep it to ur self why not be specific when telling her about her flaws and help her change or ppl think their spouse are mind readers?????????!!!!!!
This sounds like a clip from one of those upper Iweka movies(Nollywood). God gave all men wisdom to do the right thing. First go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness and beg all three women as well. When you are at peace with God, He will surely direct you.
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Comot here jare, fake tory!
First of all (introduction...LOL), it is only a big fat weakling or as people call it dese days (pussy) that stays wif a woman cos of what she's givin him esp materially! Thats just a step away from being a gigolo!
Secondly, as much as I would say u should stay wif the mother of ur child, you really need to think it thru (at least u are lucky that the world now sees nothing wrong with having baby mamas in every state).
Thirdly, the Canadian woman! are u sure u dont wanna stay with her because of a green card, and dyu know if shes blind or cripple or sth. Dyu even know if u are going there to become a houseboy or she just wants a sperm donor! Oh boy! be wise, some questions are too dumb for the 21st century!
Tell them you have HIV/ AIDS and see who stays with you or tell them not you in Jesus name Amen that your dying from one sickness and see who stays.
Its pple lyk u dat giv love a bad name.playing wit d hearts of women who truly love u (as in d case of ur baby mama) Cheat oshi. I had a two timing bastard lyk urself for a bf..y'all will get d whores u rily deserve in d end.she will sleep wit ur dad,ur brothers,ur frnds n all ur neighbours. Dnt call God dat tym o,jst knw its karma.
Belle
You're a LOSER, whoever you are. Hope all the ladies see that sooner than later. BIG FAT LOSER with no ounce of decency..
Pls i will like 2 know d secret of lossing weight.
Sweetyyy mu I sent you a msg on abgani post pls reply na...mi need those boobies..... ojimu na njo biko nu
I wonder why one has to plead with linda to post ones comment before doing so. Nawa for u o.
Omoge
ur stories looks like 2face own,,
pls seek 2face advice,not here
As far as am concerned, you are already married to your baby mama cos all you r experiencing with here now is what you see in marriage, so stick with the devil you know.
Linda this ur recent background is fustrating especially when the comments are much.i could not read anything from this post.pls do something about it.thank u.***prechey baby***
NA OGUN GO KILL UR ASS..........NA ONLY YOU LIKE BETA THING... GO TO CANADA AND REMAIN DUMPED.
ur a mighty fooooool......none of those women deserve a guy like u....mother fucker
Polygamy has never been an issue in Africa, in fact, it is the very true symbol of an African man. Go ahead and marry the 3 of them, in which case, you get to enjoy the benefits included - Fundings by the Canadian and holiday trips at intervals; the over-pampering with gift by the one born with a silver spoon and of course babies and advice from your mother-cum-girlfriend. This comes at the cost of each of them exerting a certain level of control over you and your activities. Go for it, son.
As a man, you are very stupid. Don't you know what you want in a wife. Idiot, go ask OBJ for advice.Hisss
And then when the one you eventually choose sleeps around you will wonder what you did wrong. Idiot! Like that other goat that came to say he felt like stabbing his wife in the eye because she cheated on him when he himself had cheated on her. Many Nigerian men are demons in human skin,honestly
Pick your alter ego.
Na Baba God wey know weting in go do wth you. WAKA
This generation of men are possessed. So you really believe that God who is always watching, will let you take your time to pick the one that will be best for your selfish ass and then you'll live happily ever after. I really hate the nature of men. Selfish and narrow minded.
Dickhead
ur simply a goat....
My dear u ain't first to comment...
D guy n.a. real ODE...mumu
Lwkmd oh!
Lmaorotfl, abeg your too funny!!!! Can't stop laffing
Nonesense!!!
U dnt deserve those ladies,u deserve a woman in ur present situation as they say birds of d same feather flock together
3 women..na wa ooo,go for ur baby mama
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i think i know d one in canada...is this a true story?
you are confused
ask tuface!
you must be on some wrong pills....A STANDARD BASTARD...
If you're dating 3 women then you're not ready to get married. You have a long way to go and your journey has just begun. Good luck!
Not just an idiot but an efulefu
Chei, our women do suffer! See as this idiot is pricing them like red-snapper fish!
Now start clapping for urselve....
Manager....better stop managing dear....plenty other blogs oh....
Mumu man go and become useful in ur life and marry the first woman dat has ur kid
Marry the 3 of them u idiot I wonder why men play with women's feelings like this......
Marrying any of them will not last because he does not love them. The one in Canada could be a scammer collecting money from the him.
The one with the baby is wasting her life with him. The rich one is the one that he likes for money.
Best advice is not to force yourself into marriage until you fall in love. Love matters and goes beyond marriage. Love can sustain the terrible side effect of marriage. Publish my comment.
u guys advisn ds stupid man are nt srz o... waht kinda foolish question is dat... 'wu do i marry'? . Ure a lower creature and need 2 be cremated. gadammit. Idiat!!!
Mtcheww we lazy stupid man ..,,you don't deserve any.,.LADIES PROTECT YOUR HEART
Guy , u r a MUMU!!!!!!
Go and ask 2face how he manage choose from all his harem
Fucking asshole........ No female should marry this dumbass. Girls pls respect yourselves, this is a classic example of a child trapped in a man's body.
Hey guys I need help here! Am a young lady who has 3 men in her life right now. I ve been dating one 4 ova six yrs now bt he is jobless, d second is married bt he jst a complete gentle man I.e my ideal man while d third is cool bt stingy. I love dis 3 guys and now am tired of cheating on them. Pls I need advice on whom 2 stick wit. And linda I want u 2 comment on this as well!
You put yourself in that situation. You get yourself out!
i fink u dnt deserve ny of dem...pls visit www.stylebash112.blogspot.com
Mumu oshi olojukokoro
I think the guy needs Psychiatry attention fast.
Give me the Rich girl abeg.Why are you guys insulting dis guy?na him fault?
I dint no i controled ur life! My family is not rich, i just go out of my way 2 make sacrifices 2 make u comfortable. U dnt hav 3 women. U hav 2. Havnt u noticed dat av started withdrawin? Stick 2 ur baby mama n ur canada chick. Ur a man cnt kip workin my arse off 4 u. Just so u can form false swagg. C ur frendz, all decently marid, hw many rely on dia chicks? But u colect frm me 4 ur baby mama. Yes i no all dat! M i ngry! NO, cos somwhere som guy is waitin 2 have me. N he wnt be a FINANCIAL LEECH
Mumu oshi olojukokoro
I feel you but no need to insult and curse him. It's obvious he's a weak, shameless, lazy and irresponsible man with no morals. If only these women knew his true colours... God forbid for this type to cross my path in life or that of anyone I know.
This guy is sick you had better stick to your baby mother and work hard to take care of then and stop being a lazzy ass non sence
Lazzy ass he must be very sick you had better stick to your baby mother and work hard to take care of them a real guy to talk like this u don't represent a ,man at all
Lazzy ass he must be very sick you had better stick to your baby mother and work hard to take care of them a real guy to talk like this u don't represent a ,man at all
Honestly nigerian people don't say enough,why not tell ur first wife she's too motherly and its making her less attractive???? Why keep it to ur self why not be specific when telling her about her flaws and help her change or ppl think their spouse are mind readers?????????!!!!!!
Ori e ko ti pe
U̶̲̥̅̊ are a lesbian? Intresting. Are u̶̲̥̅̊ a Nigerian?
This sounds like a clip from one of those upper Iweka movies(Nollywood). God gave all men wisdom to do the right thing. First go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness and beg all three women as well. When you are at peace with God, He will surely direct you.
Djebah O'vughe
Ole.., olojukokoro..... You are on your own cos you did not ask for advice before going into such relationship.
frist of all u are a stupid man.see u head and going to canada they ll so reject u at the embassy and for the rich girl u ll be her bitch. foolish man
some men sha
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