No its not. To me private part is private part. If u sleep with 100men b4 ur marriage n u ve a goodheart nd a polite attitude den I wld choose u over d ones dat ve slept with 2men and ve a rude nd wicked heart. Dats not d problem of Nigerians or failed marriage dis days. Mschewwwww. Who cares?
C'mon Linda let's be realistic...an average woman under 30, has had more than 10 diff dicks,whoring aside....I know I have and I still consider my Vjay very private......
Dats sheer madness, greed n undiluted quest 4material tins dat can actually drive a woman 2hav mor dan one man in her life. I ve neva double dated talk mor of havin 10 men in my life. Dat wld be stressful n wil occupy much of ur time and energy tryin 2kip up wit al dose men. I totaly disagree wit such arrangement!
This is my first comment but been on blog since last year..:: Are there still virgins? Sex is overrated now so no be new thing even if 20guyz sleep with one girl.. The girls of nowadays enjoys the Goody Bag
Linda 10 isn't too much at all. I'm 28 and getting married on the 2nd Feb, bfor my husband I have slept with over 35 guys. And my private part is just for my husband now. Does dat make me a whore? Hell no.
Personally,I don't think it's too much..All in d quest for happiness and d right one,a lady(with blood running through her veins,obviously)would have had about that..I'm not encouraging any act,I'm simply not going to judge..not at all...
Is just 2 much 4 a lady,am a lady I slept with just 3 guys d last one is nw my hubby,Any lady doing dat r dose dat wnt 2 put on expensive tinz {I wnt 2 join}pls no insult
there is no need of asking this question.if you are a xtian, your bible should be your guide. one sex partner is enough, unless may be you are not getting the desired satisfaction. in that case you should either help the person get better or leave him/her completely.
As a lady, I think so too. But its unfortunate that the harsh economic climate in Naija seems to dictate otherwise. Ladies no longer have sex for mere gratification but for other benefits attached to it. It really behoves us to create a system that will allow our youths attain financial independence.
Linda lemme paraphrase your question: Is 10 women too many lovers for a man under 30 to have had??? What is good for the geese is equally good for the gander, shikena!
Even wth d scarcity of men dis days? Two self is much na, wen some babes dey fast n pray for jst 'follow body o' nt proper BF self. Pls learn hw to share abeg n stop bein greedy joor. Lol
Hmm these days, 10 is even too small for the younger ones that are sexually active from age 14. How many will they sleep with before getting to 30. I don't want to sound judgmental but I think 10 is kinda many. Whilst iam not proud that I engaged in premarital sex.I slept wiv 2guys before marriage
more than a handful, they say, is waste...dat 5 fingers ironically..so if you've had more dan 5 sex partners or still do, ur Vjay wuz or is still of public use as it were...stick to just 1 faithful partner, it's safe. I 'm still a V n gat ma engagement ring on b4 u ppl say "pot callin kettle black"... @thebeat999freak says so
ONE IS EVEN TOO MANY TALKLESS OF 10. ARE U A PUBLIC LIABILITY COMPANY?
U SHLD MARRY AS A VIRGIN, ABEG, MAKE UNA COMOT FOR ROAD, I DEY VEX. AFTER SO MANY THE WHOLE PLACE WOULD BE MORE FREE THAN LAGOS-IBADAN EXPRESS ROAD, WITH ABSOLUTELY NO FRICTION. IF NA SWIM I WAN, I FOR GO ATLANTIC OCEAN.
Having multiple sex partners aint healthy psychologically cos u kip comparing them with ur new partners. Some gals when dey r havin sex wit their hubys dey kip sayin in their mind hw I wish he can hold me lyk paul or kiss me lyk John of lick me lyk silas. Dats y it is beta 2 marry as a virgin cos u ve a clear mind when y r intim8 wit ur partner. Spiritually u r finished cos ur spirit is in oneness wit every person u ve had sexual intercourse wit
well , i think 15 before the Age of 30 is fair enough caus while hte first 5 is usually when d girl is trying to find ha sexuality, the second 5 r for d mistakes nd d odas r the best stuff she'll neva have...so
hmm a girl shouldn't date that number of guys in an ideal world but girl we live in an unideal world... personally i don't think that makes the girls private a fed govt property or what ever that bitch is trying to prove and yes i have dated more than 10 guys be4 you all start running your gutter of a mouth
If you have slept with less, you are no better, especially if you are not or did not eventually get married to the person. You are still going to be dreaming about your ex's and fantasizing about at least one of them when you are with your husband.
Lin Lin especially in naija don't blame the girls ooo.........the guys there no easy. If you follow the way guys in naija can lie lie ehn just to sleep a girl.
the society has lost its moral compass,promiscuity and sexual debaeuchery is the order of the day...am sure thats y virgins are so hard to find this days...i wonder y una go dey ass such questions
Nigerians and dia narrow minded way of viewing tins.smh. when man do,TS normal but God forbide a woman should,t becomes a crime.mtcheww. pls DS is d 21st century and how many sexual partner 1has shudnt define a person nd Wed a she fuck 100 or me,t ain't any ones business. Hypocrisy!
Any guy that says its too much ehn, may thunder not fire you o!!how many guys will agree to date a girl without sex. And most of them know they can't take the girl home to mama o, they will just be deceiving her and then move onto the next. Personally I think it's not proper to judge a girl by the number of guys she has slept with. Know her and love her for her
Nigerians and dia narrow minded way of viewing tins.smh. when man do,TS normal but God forbide a woman should,t becomes a crime.mtcheww. pls DS is d 21st century and how many sexual partner 1has shudnt define a person nd Wed a she fuck 100 or me,t ain't any ones business. Hypocrisy!
Certified bankers cheque from the Ministry of Fornication. Seeing as your numbers are incredibly high you may be referred to the Ministry of Prostitutes, Strippers and Runz Girls.
I dont even know why im suprised. All those here making mouth and forming innocent have probably shagged the whole of Lagos yet they are here typing nonsense. The matter is private o. You will never know how many guys a babe has slept with (or how many babes a guy has slept with) anyway so why bother yourself? What you need to be concerned with is if they have kids or diseases. The rest is none of your business.
1 man is private, 2 is company 3 is a crowd and 10 men? Haba na stock exchange? If so, Ottey abi na who, should come and regulate.
Any girl or woman who has slept with ten men while under 30 will have the mind set of a public quoted company in the stock exchange. Anyone is allowed to go through the books of such a company. What esle can I say?
U only gave a figure without stating the frequency of each of the 10. Anyway,trust our girls. It is never enough until GOD come to their aid, We guys just they manage girls for bed nobi se them sweet sef.
Bloody hypocrites sha,half of u commenting can't even rem who u slept with b4 now,if a girl like let her sleep with a million,biko its her life,as u guy singing 10 is too much,u will be shocked ur gilr's been around more than u have and guess wat u wnt know,it has no meter,u ignorant people be screaming there is no P left,there is and tighter than those of u with one lover. If u see a girl will u know aw many men she has had sex with? Nope u wnt,u either fall in love with or LUST. Its up to her to feel ashamed if she wants to. If its about d P expanding all na story,u have a guy with a big thing and he loves sex and u sleep with him 5 times daily anytime u go and visit him,wnt ur thing expand? If na so d thing dey expand. Very sad thing that only the hoes are getting wifed up,and u all singing sainty are still waiting on d LORD.
@ifeoma Am sure is ur type dat has slept with more dan 30. Ode. I av slept wif a lot more dan 20sef n am just 24. Its my private my business.. .am getting married in two months..d one's claiming 1 is enough abi two. Are u married yet?????
Is 10 men enough? how many is one supposed 2 have? 2 @ most 3 in my opinion & no am not a self righteous girl; I simply have self respect for my body & it is not for every Tom, Dick, Harry, Emeka, Femi & Abdul to sample before I get married.
Iv had sex with only my husband,not that I married as a virgin,but he disvirgined me years b4 we got married and we re living happily ever after!!!some of us re just lucky sha,but for others,they have to sleep with so many men for money.sad sad sad.10 men ,is prostitution
More than one sex partner is absolutely too much for a responsible lady. Sex should be a thing of enjoyment between only two people ( a man and a woman ) but where it is more than one under normal circumstance then the lady is looked at as a prostitute.
hisss...u people dont have work to do..how does sleeping with 10 guys affect the price of iru in the market..kmft...who cares how many guys you and I have slept with...I love my bf cus he did not even ask me how many I have skept with, he simply doesnt care,he loves me for me and not you has been in my pants..he is a real man...engage yourself in life changing convos and not trivial issues like this...Linda you are just an attention seeker!! kmt
Hey,please lemme get the get the question right,is it 10 lovers at once or 10 lovers over a life time,either ways,let's face it and let's be sincere,ladies these days do more than 10 guys over a life time,and a whole lot of ladies now have more than 10 partners.
I live in Lagos,and I have had my fair share of affairs with babes,to me,most girls these days now believe "indiscriminate sex is nothing" I have had phrases like "Pussy no get meter" and that's why an average Lagos girl is willing to trade "SEX for MONEY or PLEASURE"
Linda,believe me,I know girl and stories of babes that well over 10 guys have given testimonial of sleeping with,in some cases,the guys are friends,I have even heard an unconfirmed gist of a girls wedding were all the guys that slept with her in the past sat at a table and the were all dressed in same attire.
To me,I will pardon me girlfriend. If she has slept with 5 guys,in her life,I will take it has the 5 guys were jerks and she was in the grooming and learning process with those 5 guys,but having more than 5 or sleeping with me and 9 other guys will make me question ur integrity,discipline and character,am I safe to marry U?what disease are U carrying that I don't know,if tomorrow I go out shopping with U,how many more guys will start in a corner and point and gist their friends how they slept with U?
Sex is a wonderful thing,I love it,but I am also 1 of the few that believes in doing it with just 1 loved girl or guy.
Anon 12:37,a typical African man u are,dey hate the truth! I hope u don't end up marrying a smart' one dat would have slept with like 100men and hides d truth from u!....afterall dey say dat place' no dey read meter
2 sex partners is too many. How many do u want to keep testing till you settle with your future spouse. i am a married woman wen i look back i regret it i had 4 in d past and my hubby is d 5th i still regret it, i just console myslf that afterall i was dating them seriously not that they picked me up from the street, but people, that's self deceit. If u have had more than 10 sex partners, ur name is sorry cos the probability of u getting some more outside marriage is very high. Conclusively, 2 sex partners is too many, 5 sex partners is too much plenty,10 is indeed a Federal govt territory.
Guy the tin don becom public part nah.. Haba. I just give thanks say we guys dey call our own Rod sha not private becos, hmmmm. Well ask 2baba... Carry go.
Startyn frm where I can rememba...bro banji, bro kunle, modid, keke,eskay, baby, 3 flings, n nw my husband**breathing hard**10k God I made d finish line!!! Though d 1st 3 tuk advantage of me n am serious mor lik RAPE!!!
Startyn frm where I can rememba...bro banji, bro kunle, modid, keke,eskay, baby, 3 flings, n nw my husband**breathing hard**10k God I made d finish line!!! Though d 1st 3 tuk advantage of me n am serious mor lik RAPE!!!
If only the vagina had an actual barometer. A lot of these so called women claiming 2 and 3 men you can actually times that number by 10 and 20 and still not get how many men have fucked them. Who cares how many men a woman has has as long as she enjoys herself and satisfies her partners and uses protection at all times? And FYI the vagina won't slacken as long as omobaby does her Kegl Exercises religiously!
I think this is more the norm than a blip. I've lived on 3 continents and Nigeria is still the easiest place I know to have sex. Women in other places are bolder but Naija ladies are... :-)
You comment here and call people hoes when your mind keeps judging u. You openly judge but ur conscience won't let u sleep @ nyt. Nigerian men dump girls for different reasons and now girls cant use becos of one mistake and give up on love. You start dating someone and he breaks up wit u after six month cause u are too homey,d oda breaks up wit u becos u are nt religious enof (hypocrite), anoda breaks up wit u becos of ethnicity. And later u are like, let me just do it in my next relationship.and dat next relationship won't last three months. After 3 months u date again hoping he is d one. U have sex and b4 u know it, he wants out. Let's just stop being self rigteous here, becos all those girls claiming 3,2,6,5, any below 10 have done more than. Mtcheeeeew. Personally, I've done 15 and am just 25, I started dating @ 19. Am not a runs girl and am nt proud of my self bt what d heck, shit happens. Though am now in a no sex relationship with my boyfriend whom I love, I hope he is nt doing someone else.
1st of all who determines whats too much and whats ok these days.. Personally i've slept wiv 10 men and although i do think its much ..no1 has right to judge another person.. besides abt 7 out of dem r 1 night stands but idc cos i've learnt from it and 2bh i had rather sleep with 10 men than get married and commit adultery or sell my body for material things..so that girl can stfu abt it belongs to sum federal government and sum of u commenting on here i've done worse..its only in nigeria that all these things matter anyway..yet look how corrupted d ppl r..i rest my case
Personally at 24, have had many boyfriends but slept with 5 and i would rather not sleep with any more except my boyfriend and i broke up tomorrow. That said, i think 6 to 10 before age 30 is not promiscuous!!!!
Nigerian!!! Reading through d comments, I see a lot of hypocrites on here..10 men re not too much..av yu tried going to church on sunday and see lot of girls praying seriously for husband.. Pls try asalatu , and yu will see d number of ladies dat av turned into real hajia because of husband..yu may be so lucky dat yu av nt sleept wiv upto 10guyz b4 yu got yur husband.. Some are not that lucky.. another point also, some babes love sex.. We can't blame dem it is Dier nature.. Mostly newly disvirgined babe would wanna try different sizes of cock.. People tlk abt keeping yourself b4 Marriage, do yu think it is easy ni.. Pls try dating a virgin and see how much yu will want her to lose it 4 yu..only if yu av oda babes dat re satisfying yu.. Yu lie to them that yu luv dem and sleep wiv them, d girls too may do it cos of the money or material benefit . In conclusion, what I am trying to say it dat.. We can't generalize this .. Dere re different reasons why a lady may have slept wiv more than 10 guys.. Thanks
HMMM. IT IS SO EASY FOR EVERYONE TO HAVE AN OPINION ON THIS TOPIC. AS OUR FACES ARE DIFFERENT, SO ARE OUR HEARTS, LIVES AND STORIES!!! ANYONE WHO CLAIMS ONE YARDSTICK IS USED TO MEASURE EVERYONE ON THIS TOPIC, IS CLEARLY NOT ENLIGHTENED. THERE IS NO "RIGHT" NUMBER. TO EACH, HER BLOODY OWN... IF IT IS 1, GOOD FOR YOU.....IF IT IS 100,000,000, GOD FOR YOU. PEOPLE NEED TO GET LIVES REALLY!!!!
tchewwhow about the men that sleep with theses women?as far as i am concerned they are all perverts. why does the woman have to be picked on everytime? men sleep around sometimes they sleep with five different girls in a month but when a woman sleeps with just two different men in a year the woman becomes a whore.
God doesnt consider one's gender when judging sin and no ive only slept with one guy in my life so im not frustrated or anything i just hate gender bias
The truth of the matter is that, many Nigerian girls use their private part to make money for survival. Many of them provide financial assistant to their families. They go through university with the help of men. Chances are that before they get to the age of 30, they may have slept with 10 or more men.
shut d fuck up! what do we call ur brother then? a man whore or sth worse? he is d one that sleeps with all those girls. He had better repent oo thank God is not gender biased.
im sure u are a woman. i pity you. its true that women are their own worst enemies. so a man that has slept with over a hundred girls should marry a virgin. what happens to the hundred he slept with.
I have slept with 15 men, inshort i wrote down names before i put up my comment.
most time its not a woman's fault, i vowed to sleep with just a man, i was over 20 before i got disvirgin becaus ei believed the guy that disvirgin me so much that we will get married, but along the way things change and he started misbehavin to the extend of sleeping with "prostitues" just because i left port harcourt to lagos for my school.
i had to leave him and continue, but i have been having so many disspointment, which life goes on.
i just met my guy as the 15th guy, i slept with.
i am not happy about it at all as i see this post, but the truth has to be told.
reading through all these comments. Most women here would be acting like saits here when indeed they have exceeded the number. Even the Linda might just be one of them.......Nigeria is filled with runs girls and and i must tell you that if they really want to be truthful,,,,,you will that 10 is the least they had. I have personally seen a gurl that slept with 4 men at a time in d name of money and she is just 23 driving a flashy car. when she is 30 i wonder how many men she would have serviced........so my point is that nigerian girls these day are wild and pretentious.
Never judge,so that you won't be judged..am 25 and have had 22 men and am not a slut or what ever you name me..I was abused at the age of 10 and believe me I see sex as a relief just bcos I have a very low self esteem which am trying to get over with now...but I thank God for my life cos am not where I used to be..so judge no one cos we are all @ a point in time a victim which made who we are 2day..
Hey,please lemme get the get the question right,is it 10 lovers at once or 10 lovers over a life time,either ways,let's face it and let's be sincere,ladies these days do more than 10 guys over a life time,and a whole lot of ladies now have more than 10 partners.
I live in Lagos,and I have had my fair share of affairs with babes,to me,most girls these days now believe "indiscriminate sex is nothing" I have had phrases like "Pussy no get meter" and that's why an average Lagos girl is willing to trade "SEX for MONEY or PLEASURE"
Linda,believe me,I know girl and stories of babes that well over 10 guys have given testimonial of sleeping with,in some cases,the guys are friends,I have even heard an unconfirmed gist of a girls wedding were all the guys that slept with her in the past sat at a table and the were all dressed in same attire.
To me,I will pardon me girlfriend. If she has slept with 5 guys,in her life,I will take it has the 5 guys were jerks and she was in the grooming and learning process with those 5 guys,but having more than 5 or sleeping with me and 9 other guys will make me question ur integrity,discipline and character,am I safe to marry U?what disease are U carrying that I don't know,if tomorrow I go out shopping with U,how many more guys will start in a corner and point and gist their friends how they slept with U?
Sex is a wonderful thing,I love it,but I am also 1 of the few that believes in doing it with just 1 loved girl or guy.
Sincerely, I really hate it wen pple say a guy is free to av sex wt more dan ten girls and a girl is not,wat's d fuss about and why should dis be a topic anyway? All doz who are criticizing and proving holy should stfu cos wat dey do is even worse dan avin sex. Dia is no difference btw a girl who has had sex wt one guy nd d one who has had wt 10 girls cos both are not virgins. If any of Ɣ'all wanna criticisize should be a catholic sister cos sex is a psychological need dat everyone craves for d degree jus varies.
Some of these anonymous posters lambasting other posters for telling it as it is are just been jealous & pained! Who send u msg? did anybody force u 2 turn ur p****y in2 shoprite? wia anybody can stroll in even if they have no intention of buying anything? If u r so dumb that u have indiscriminate sex ( in exchange for money or favour )or so dumb dat men easily take advantage of u (b'coz any guy that truly luv u will never use sex as a prerequisite to marry u so bone dat excuse) blame nobody abeg & keep ur venom 2 urself! You have no excuse 2 have sooo many sexual partners 4 crying out loud!
A lady who started having sex as a teenager is most likely to have 10 or more sex partner by the age of 30, small wonder most Nigerian men would rather marry ladies in their twenties than in their thirties.
Some ladies have uncontrollable desire to have sex, when the opportunity presents itself, they will definitely get laid. I am sure they are ladies who have lost count of the number of men they've slept with before they hit 30.
Lindiway, If a key(man) opens many keys(woman), it is called MASTER KEY. But if a key(woman) is opened by many keys(man)....it is called ASHAWO KEY. Take urself as a key and answer this question. Fertig und Danke noch ein mal.
Due to the kind of society we live in, one hardly see a man or woman that sticks to one partner. They exist but the rate of those that double date are higher. So a woman having slept with ten men or more is not the issue but lack of morals in the society . A man that is morally upright will definitely attract a woman with same or similar feature because he knows the purpose of going to relationship (when purpose is not know , abuse becomes inevitable). Linda please post my message. God bless you
i beg ppl should not give us all this lies,once u have slept with more than 1 partner u are guilty as someone that has slept with 100 partners be male or female.Rubbish.
I weep for this generation. the extent of moral decadence is becoming immeasurable. Unfortunately most bloggers are not helping our youngsters, rather they thrive on publishing articles that further destroys their already damaged perception to life. O God have mercy!
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Does number really matter? After all a gal who has slept with 20 can still be likened to a gal who has slept with just 7. You can just never tell the difference
My opinion is this, most and not all the ladies under 30 and are still under 3 or 5 had a rough start with the guys or are still virgins.
If the truth would be told by 30 you might even be on number 20 or so.
No does that make them public, hell to the no. Your pussy has nothing to do with the way you carry yourself or whom u let in there.
The funny thing is that some dude said 2 is too much, as a guy u must have selpt with 20 under the age of 22, so do u think the girls u r screwing for fun aint having the same kind of gun. lol, grow up
Just as ur Dick is public, it needs a pussy to service it init
some of d guys dat are criticizing d girls should b ashamed am sure most guys have slept with more than 30 before they get married but d society won't critcize dat......rubbish
Ahn Ahn!!!!! Badoo *olamide's voice* new fashioned Biko show us the way now badazz with the wide mind..... Itie!!! See your mouth like 10 is nothing...... I'm sure 100 is also nothing to you.... Public dustbin.... Some of you just come on here to ballz... Please be wise you're not growing any younger oo.... Onuku... Mshew
having one sef can destroy u and ur generation, talkless of 10. Read dis article on how sex leads to destruction of one's generation http://www.thewordcompass.blogspot.com/2012/11/sex-before-marriage-can-destroy-you-and.html
Guys kindly stop posting bullshit. you men are the cause of all this. Do you think a normal girl would want to jump from bed to bed? i dont think so. you guys keep messing up women's life. you disvirgin them and abandon them ,knowing fully well this is not what you want. What do u expect a girl in that situation to do?Go to church and keep praying for you to come back? Now let me make something clear to all you ladies,their is no set rules on this planet earth. Remember someday we'll be history on this earth, so enjoy your life and try to please God instead of man. Be yourself, live your life,stay happy(relevant) and be nice to your fellow human beings. Forget how many men you have slept with and do not listen to people who try to bring you down or make you feel less of yourself. Everyone is a child of God and loved by God,no matter the sins youve committed in the past. I hate hypocrites,they turn me off. I advice every lady to stay focused, go to school or learn a good trade, improve your knowledge and get married and have a family if they will make u happy,otherwise you can also find happiness being alone too.(no be must to marry).Tomorrow is unknown(i'm on this planet earth to please God and not man, so i sleep with hundren men, na me and God judgement) Terrible things are happening in this our generation, people are dying, people are infected with HIV/AIDS(majority,married men and later they infect their wives) so please stop counting rubbish and leave a wonderful life women. Stay blessed.
You're really a fool.its your type that peddles STD.all you wanted to do in the first place was to staff n go.now you're using her sincerity as an excuse....male whore.maybe when your daughter has 19 abortions at 25 then you will understand karma n that she's a batch.besides who told u and what makes you believe that a woman cannot have her. 1st sex at 24 or even on your marriage bed and end up havin a history of 13 partners the next year
am not saying that a woman should sleep with about 10 guys but guys should also keep themselves too and not sleep with every woman. but sometimes before you get to see the right one it takes time. lol i think yall should stay celibate till its time to marry.
It is only a topic on sex that can generate this raft of comments. I can bet my bottom dollar that 80% of the commentators here have had no fewer than ten sex partners.
It is only a topic on sex that can generate this raft of comments. I can bet my bottom dollar that 80% of the commentators here have had no fewer than ten sex partners.
You're so right.so very.i as a girl had jus two till date.den on gal that used to talk so much about virginity but cud snuggle up to various guys lost it.before a week,she had done 3.before a month,7.dunno about now....cos iv lost contact with her.in essence,it's not about how many,technically but the mindset... Some women of God have had so many,yet today they are inspiration to other women. Will we be judged by our past.even though the lord of hosts doesn't look into our past but our hearts and future. Who then is man to judge us. Do you realise how many sexual partners Mary magdalen or the Samaritan woman had?yet they turned to Jesus and he visited thier hearts.they were never the same
Why do people try to make excuses for something they know is definitely wrong. Ideally 1 should be enough, but realistically people go through relationships because of on thing or the other and for the most part most girls hope that the one they are with is the one, until something happens and the relationship kicks the bucket. So it is understandable that a girl would have gone through multiple men before marriage. That being said, except you are having one night stands and stuff, how in the world having been in relationships with 10+ men, ever tried being alone, getting to know you? Seriously ladies, after the 2nd - 3rd relationship didn't work out, take time out and do some self/ soul searching cause it might just be that u are making the same mistakes over and over again, I mean do u really need someone to validate you that bad. Relationships are hard work, its difficult going through one relationship, talk more of 10, seriously ladies, stop wasting your energy with the ritual. This is why most girls have no personality, u become ur husband's puppet because you never took time out to find yourself, instead u went from one relationship to another. This is for those that 10+ sex partners are due to relationships, but it your 10+ sex partners are becos of one night stands and friends with benefit, sorry girl call a spade a spade, its not being judgmental its stating the fact, you are a slut. Yes to each her own but you also have to be honest and tell yourself the truth, your own na ashowo levels!
As funny as that tweet might seem, I do agree with it, condoms are not 100% people so safe sex or not AIDS is real and people can be wicked, so better be safe than sorry!
My comment goes to all the men. In what way have you helped ur gfs not to sleep with more than 10 men? When u men keep insisting on sex as a prerequisite in sustaining every r/ship, y wont women have more than 10 lovers? I am 32 and have never had sex. All my previous r/ships ended becoz the men wldnt wait to get sex after they had put a ring on it. My two cents is that if u are a man, u got no business judging any woman. As for the women, to each his own.
Ok lets be frank here, IF A MAN HAS SMASHED MORE THAN 20 THEN A WOMAN CAN. THERE SHUD BE NO....A WOMAN CANT SMASH MORE THAN 10. ETC. MY LOVELY TWO CENTS
Linda please help me ask LIBgers. I want to get marry but i probably want to get marry to a virgin. Please i want to know the benefit of marrying a virgin girl/lady or woman. As my friends over here are adversing me never to try marry a virgin.
you are very stupid with that your comment. i am 35 and about to get married.the guy i am getting married to is the third guy i have ever slept with in my life. this is because i choose carefully who have access to my private part.
For all those girls saying anything above 2 or 3 is too much, please search yourselves very well; you may have just been very lucky with relationships and shouldn't judge others who aren't so lucky. Just like someone mentioned, boys of these days such players and they have mastered the art of deceiving girls (who we all know are more emotional).
Assuming a girl first had sex at 18, by the time she is 30, 12years would have gone bye. Although I quite agree that '10 partners' is a disturbing figure (when heard) but I do not think it necessarily makes the girl an automatic whore. REMEMBER IT IS NOT 10 GUYS AT ONCE BUT RATHER 10 GUYS OVER A PERIOD OF 12 YEARS. Finally, it all depends on the girl's circumstances and I believe every girl should be judged on a case by case basis.
I believe linda is using a topic like dis to create traffic on her site n she's making more millions.... 10 or 100 ..... Its rili no ones business.... Those of em sayn deyve had just 2 partners n dey r married end up cheatn on dier husbands which i find mre disgusting.....
10 guys is the average for some girls/women and thats just per year. Some do 20 a year. Women have multiple partners these days just as much as men do. Trust me. To think otherwise would be naive!!
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No its not. To me private part is private part. If u sleep with 100men b4 ur marriage n u ve a goodheart nd a polite attitude den I wld choose u over d ones dat ve slept with 2men and ve a rude nd wicked heart. Dats not d problem of Nigerians or failed marriage dis days. Mschewwwww. Who cares?
Depends on wen she becomes sexually active as 4 me 10 is too much,bt in dis day and age in nigeria 10 is too little 4 some ladies.
C'mon Linda let's be realistic...an average woman under 30, has had more than 10 diff dicks,whoring aside....I know I have and I still consider my Vjay very private......
Dats sheer madness, greed n undiluted quest 4material tins dat can actually drive a woman 2hav mor dan one man in her life. I ve neva double dated talk mor of havin 10 men in my life. Dat wld be stressful n wil occupy much of ur time and energy tryin 2kip up wit al dose men. I totaly disagree wit such arrangement!
Mmmmm mmmmm Why not have 100 then u'll agree u've had too many. Mstchewwwwww
Are there still virgins? I think sex is the order of the day
She wey tweet am I'm sure say she don sleep with over 20
Of course Yes, na try ur luck u D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ do? Alest 4 or 5 bt 10, dats way too much
This is my first comment but been on blog since last year..:: Are there still virgins? Sex is overrated now so no be new thing even if 20guyz sleep with one girl.. The girls of nowadays enjoys the Goody Bag
1 is more than énough
I think 5 is enof,Ova 10 is too much oh,pity your future hubsy
More than 5 is too many.
Hahahahahaa I can't stop laughing.
Linda 10 isn't too much at all. I'm 28 and getting married on the 2nd Feb, bfor my husband I have slept with over 35 guys. And my private part is just for my husband now. Does dat make me a whore? Hell no.
its subjective jare
Na today, Federal ni local government ko! Oshis ko
Personally,I don't think it's too much..All in d quest for happiness and d right one,a lady(with blood running through her veins,obviously)would have had about that..I'm not encouraging any act,I'm simply not going to judge..not at all...
iknow a girl who has slept with 6guys....is that too much?
Wo†̥ a silly question...kuku go D̶̲̥̅̊o sugery open another hole for your ass now,open another branch!!!
more than 1 is too many
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10 partners is kinda low.
Judging from how early people start having sex these days, 10 partners by the age of 30 is a low figure...i'd say 25 is more accurate.
This is an objective stand o, abeg, has nothing to do with my morals...before all these aprokos will eat me raw here
It's now a socialist economy
heheheheh waiting for the comments to roll in
well i think u shud marry him n wif time u will forget what happened time heals wound
Is just 2 much 4 a lady,am a lady I slept with just 3 guys d last one is nw my hubby,Any lady doing dat r dose dat wnt 2 put on expensive tinz {I wnt 2 join}pls no insult
there is no need of asking this question.if you are a xtian, your bible should be your guide. one sex partner is enough, unless may be you are not getting the desired satisfaction. in that case you should either help the person get better or leave him/her completely.
Lwkmd @ d twitter post. I really dnt knw much abt sex,so I can't say. I married @ 18 n my hubby is d 1st.
Wow really tot 2 in a life tym is ok. Bt 1 is d only acceptable.
Lol
10 kwa. Interesting
Oh really
4 me sex shld b done in marriage. So 10 sounds so ridiculous
AHAHAHAA....FED GOVT. THAT GIRL IS AN ASS FOR SAYING THAT.....
How on earth can one woman have 10 male sex partner is not good 4 her health. Please is very bad!
Pealie, are you here???
*work no pay*
Many gals go be fedral govt be dat.
As a lady, I think so too. But its unfortunate that the harsh economic climate in Naija seems to dictate otherwise. Ladies no longer have sex for mere gratification but for other benefits attached to it. It really behoves us to create a system that will allow our youths attain financial independence.
Linda lemme paraphrase your question: Is 10 women too many lovers for a man under 30 to have had??? What is good for the geese is equally good for the gander, shikena!
Even wth d scarcity of men dis days? Two self is much na, wen some babes dey fast n pray for jst 'follow body o' nt proper BF self. Pls learn hw to share abeg n stop bein greedy joor. Lol
10 is too small. 365 is enough. One evy day of d year.
This team suga or whatever she calls herself is just a slimy dirty liar, I am sure she has slept with Iva 30 men, holier than thou bitch ...mschewwww
hmmn,10 men don 3-much o,u wan make ur ...... Tear?
hmmn,10 men don 3-much o,u wan make ur ...... Tear?
keeping up to 10 guyz for a lady is too much. I am reccommending 2 or 3 guys for a lady. Iam a guy and dont expect a lady to keep one guy
hello Linda, please do me the honours of sharing my page on your blog, front page. i would really appreciate the support
Sum gals even get reach 25 and u re here tokin of just only 10 hmmm!
Hmm these days, 10 is even too small for the younger ones that are sexually active from age 14. How many will they sleep with before getting to 30. I don't want to sound judgmental but I think 10 is kinda many. Whilst iam not proud that I engaged in premarital sex.I slept wiv 2guys before marriage
Greenmomma
more than a handful, they say, is waste...dat 5 fingers ironically..so if you've had more dan 5 sex partners or still do, ur Vjay wuz or is still of public use as it were...stick to just 1 faithful partner, it's safe. I 'm still a V n gat ma engagement ring on b4 u ppl say "pot callin kettle black"... @thebeat999freak says so
Definately Cant be Applicable to a Man
10 is small, 30 will be okay
My dear at d age of 30 every woman should kw wht is good 4 her, 10 lover are 2much
My dear at d age of 30 every woman should kw wht is good 4 her, 10 lover are 2much
ONE IS EVEN TOO MANY TALKLESS OF 10.
ARE U A PUBLIC LIABILITY COMPANY?
U SHLD MARRY AS A VIRGIN, ABEG, MAKE UNA COMOT FOR ROAD, I DEY VEX. AFTER SO MANY THE WHOLE PLACE WOULD BE MORE FREE THAN LAGOS-IBADAN EXPRESS ROAD, WITH ABSOLUTELY NO FRICTION.
IF NA SWIM I WAN, I FOR GO ATLANTIC OCEAN.
i definitely belong to the federal govt then!
Well it depends. One man ten men as long as u're not married to dem same difference
Having multiple sex partners aint healthy psychologically cos u kip comparing them with ur new partners. Some gals when dey r havin sex wit their hubys dey kip sayin in their mind hw I wish he can hold me lyk paul or kiss me lyk John of lick me lyk silas. Dats y it is beta 2 marry as a virgin cos u ve a clear mind when y r intim8 wit ur partner. Spiritually u r finished cos ur spirit is in oneness wit every person u ve had sexual intercourse wit
Well 2 sum itz nt buh 4 odaz it is. Buh most women under 30 hv slept wif even mur dan 10 men and dey see it as nufin.
Linda I dey suspect Ў☺ΰ o
well , i think 15 before the Age of 30 is fair enough caus while hte first 5 is usually when d girl is trying to find ha sexuality, the second 5 r for d mistakes nd d odas r the best stuff she'll neva have...so
hmm a girl shouldn't date that number of guys in an ideal world but girl we live in an unideal world... personally i don't think that makes the girls private a fed govt property or what ever that bitch is trying to prove
and yes i have dated more than 10 guys be4 you all start running your gutter of a mouth
If you have slept with less, you are no better, especially if you are not or did not eventually get married to the person. You are still going to be dreaming about your ex's and fantasizing about at least one of them when you are with your husband.
Lin Lin especially in naija don't blame the girls ooo.........the guys there no easy. If you follow the way guys in naija can lie lie ehn just to sleep a girl.
We shouldn't be fournicating full stop
pretty sure d owner of dat twitter account is a borehole herself....mschewwwwww
no one cares jare,wateva floats ya boat
Lmao!!!! No comments from the ladies :) *passing by*
@ least 5 ios enuff for sex...dem dey credit ur account by d number of sex partner wey u get?...
Hmmm, 10 partner, is not wise.
the society has lost its moral compass,promiscuity and sexual debaeuchery is the order of the day...am sure thats y virgins are so hard to find this days...i wonder y una go dey ass such questions
Thank you very much, for some it Neva happened
Nigerians and dia narrow minded way of viewing tins.smh. when man do,TS normal but God forbide a woman should,t becomes a crime.mtcheww. pls DS is d 21st century and how many sexual partner 1has shudnt define a person nd Wed a she fuck 100 or me,t ain't any ones business. Hypocrisy!
Any guy that says its too much ehn, may thunder not fire you o!!how many guys will agree to date a girl without sex. And most of them know they can't take the girl home to mama o, they will just be deceiving her and then move onto the next. Personally I think it's not proper to judge a girl by the number of guys she has slept with. Know her and love her for her
Nigerians and dia narrow minded way of viewing tins.smh. when man do,TS normal but God forbide a woman should,t becomes a crime.mtcheww. pls DS is d 21st century and how many sexual partner 1has shudnt define a person nd Wed a she fuck 100 or me,t ain't any ones business. Hypocrisy!
whether it is too much or too little is relative. It also depends on the age of the girl in question, is she 15yrs or over 40yrs.
Meanwhile of what importance is this analysis.
2 is ok
Ahn Ahn .....10 is too much na ....abi is she a dog?1 is enough
Just ask yourself, if my daughter shows up with ten guys she has slept with, would I be ecstatic?
Certified bankers cheque from the Ministry of Fornication. Seeing as your numbers are incredibly high you may be referred to the Ministry of Prostitutes, Strippers and Runz Girls.
I dont even know why im suprised. All those here making mouth and forming innocent have probably shagged the whole of Lagos yet they are here typing nonsense. The matter is private o. You will never know how many guys a babe has slept with (or how many babes a guy has slept with) anyway so why bother yourself? What you need to be concerned with is if they have kids or diseases. The rest is none of your business.
1 man is private, 2 is company 3 is a crowd and 10 men? Haba na stock exchange? If so, Ottey abi na who, should come and regulate.
Any girl or woman who has slept with ten men while under 30 will have the mind set of a public quoted company in the stock exchange. Anyone is allowed to go through the books of such a company. What esle can I say?
And that's ur justification for sleeping with over 10 men ba? Biko, park well.
U only gave a figure without stating the frequency of each of the 10. Anyway,trust our girls. It is never enough until GOD come to their aid, We guys just they manage girls for bed nobi se them sweet sef.
Bloody hypocrites sha,half of u commenting can't even rem who u slept with b4 now,if a girl like let her sleep with a million,biko its her life,as u guy singing 10 is too much,u will be shocked ur gilr's been around more than u have and guess wat u wnt know,it has no meter,u ignorant people be screaming there is no P left,there is and tighter than those of u with one lover.
If u see a girl will u know aw many men she has had sex with? Nope u wnt,u either fall in love with or LUST.
Its up to her to feel ashamed if she wants to.
If its about d P expanding all na story,u have a guy with a big thing and he loves sex and u sleep with him 5 times daily anytime u go and visit him,wnt ur thing expand? If na so d thing dey expand.
Very sad thing that only the hoes are getting wifed up,and u all singing sainty are still waiting on d LORD.
Aunty virgin mary wey dey count dick, go rest. private part na private business? useless geh
Ode!!! Is that the question? Reason many of you fail simple exam. What is all ur gibberish for? Just take note
It's never good to have multiple sex partners, and if you're not married, even one sex partner is bad enough.
How To Handle Premarital Sexual Urges
Hahahaha......did u keep urself? Or are u still keeping urself?
Lol...ur comment is so on point!!
Wa gbayi!! U make sense
Hmmmn, dats kinda true sha
Lool
You are an asswipe for that comment!
@ifeoma Am sure is ur type dat has slept with more dan 30. Ode. I av slept wif a lot more dan 20sef n am just 24. Its my private my business.. .am getting married in two months..d one's claiming 1 is enough abi two. Are u married yet?????
Is 10 men enough? how many is one supposed 2 have? 2 @ most 3 in my opinion & no am not a self righteous girl; I simply have self respect for my body & it is not for every Tom, Dick, Harry, Emeka, Femi & Abdul to sample before I get married.
Iv had sex with only my husband,not that I married as a virgin,but he disvirgined me years b4 we got married and we re living happily ever after!!!some of us re just lucky sha,but for others,they have to sleep with so many men for money.sad sad sad.10 men ,is prostitution
More than one sex partner is absolutely too much for a responsible lady. Sex should be a thing of enjoyment between only two people ( a man and a woman ) but where it is more than one under normal circumstance then the lady is looked at as a prostitute.
Lmao. U too gbasky
N ur luvly husband has done 100 n is stil doing mor..olodo!
Lmao...I wonder o!
Nice! Bad girls always find a man...
*number being up to 10 ISN'T bad enough for a under 30 year old lady, I meant.
You are the fool! 10 is nofin? Dat says a lot about u pervert!
hisss...u people dont have work to do..how does sleeping with 10 guys affect the price of iru in the market..kmft...who cares how many guys you and I have slept with...I love my bf cus he did not even ask me how many I have skept with, he simply doesnt care,he loves me for me and not you has been in my pants..he is a real man...engage yourself in life changing convos and not trivial issues like this...Linda you are just an attention seeker!! kmt
Hey,please lemme get the get the question right,is it 10 lovers at once or 10 lovers over a life time,either ways,let's face it and let's be sincere,ladies these days do more than 10 guys over a life time,and a whole lot of ladies now have more than 10 partners.
I live in Lagos,and I have had my fair share of affairs with babes,to me,most girls these days now believe "indiscriminate sex is nothing" I have had phrases like "Pussy no get meter" and that's why an average Lagos girl is willing to trade "SEX for MONEY or PLEASURE"
Linda,believe me,I know girl and stories of babes that well over 10 guys have given testimonial of sleeping with,in some cases,the guys are friends,I have even heard an unconfirmed gist of a girls wedding were all the guys that slept with her in the past sat at a table and the were all dressed in same attire.
To me,I will pardon me girlfriend. If she has slept with 5 guys,in her life,I will take it has the 5 guys were jerks and she was in the grooming and learning process with those 5 guys,but having more than 5 or sleeping with me and 9 other guys will make me question ur integrity,discipline and character,am I safe to marry U?what disease are U carrying that I don't know,if tomorrow I go out shopping with U,how many more guys will start in a corner and point and gist their friends how they slept with U?
Sex is a wonderful thing,I love it,but I am also 1 of the few that believes in doing it with just 1 loved girl or guy.
Anon 12:37,a typical African man u are,dey hate the truth!
I hope u don't end up marrying a smart' one dat would have slept with like 100men and hides d truth from u!....afterall dey say dat place' no dey read meter
2 sex partners is too many. How many do u want to keep testing till you settle with your future spouse. i am a married woman wen i look back i regret it i had 4 in d past and my hubby is d 5th i still regret it, i just console myslf that afterall i was dating them seriously not that they picked me up from the street, but people, that's self deceit. If u have had more than 10 sex partners, ur name is sorry cos the probability of u getting some more outside marriage is very high. Conclusively, 2 sex partners is too many, 5 sex partners is too much plenty,10 is indeed a Federal govt territory.
Guy the tin don becom public part nah.. Haba. I just give thanks say we guys dey call our own Rod sha not private becos, hmmmm. Well ask 2baba... Carry go.
Startyn frm where I can rememba...bro banji, bro kunle, modid, keke,eskay, baby, 3 flings, n nw my husband**breathing hard**10k God I made d finish line!!! Though d 1st 3 tuk advantage of me n am serious mor lik RAPE!!!
OMG!!! U̶̲̥̅̊ r so hilariou...lmao
Startyn frm where I can rememba...bro banji, bro kunle, modid, keke,eskay, baby, 3 flings, n nw my husband**breathing hard**10k God I made d finish line!!! Though d 1st 3 tuk advantage of me n am serious mor lik RAPE!!!
If only the vagina had an actual barometer. A lot of these so called women claiming 2 and 3 men you can actually times that number by 10 and 20 and still not get how many men have fucked them.
Who cares how many men a woman has has as long as she enjoys herself and satisfies her partners and uses protection at all times?
And FYI the vagina won't slacken as long as omobaby does her Kegl Exercises religiously!
Seriously! 10 is nothing? U need to repent,
I think this is more the norm than a blip. I've lived on 3 continents and Nigeria is still the easiest place I know to have sex. Women in other places are bolder but Naija ladies are... :-)
if e don pass ten na be say federal government na understatement na. if e don pass ten you be OKPO. gossippme blog
Now, THIS!!! (y)
Shattap ya smelly mouth.... Like u only av one... *eyes rolling*
Gbam
10 is too much! kilode except you're a runs girl sha
U are silly for dis long write-up Of yurz... Wu askd u for d story line? TF!!!
O ri e pe meeeen....ur head correct
Ashewo.... Uhmmmn wetin?
You comment here and call people hoes when your mind keeps judging u. You openly judge but ur conscience won't let u sleep @ nyt. Nigerian men dump girls for different reasons and now girls cant use becos of one mistake and give up on love. You start dating someone and he breaks up wit u after six month cause u are too homey,d oda breaks up wit u becos u are nt religious enof (hypocrite), anoda breaks up wit u becos of ethnicity. And later u are like, let me just do it in my next relationship.and dat next relationship won't last three months. After 3 months u date again hoping he is d one. U have sex and b4 u know it, he wants out. Let's just stop being self rigteous here, becos all those girls claiming 3,2,6,5, any below 10 have done more than. Mtcheeeeew. Personally, I've done 15 and am just 25, I started dating @ 19. Am not a runs girl and am nt proud of my self bt what d heck, shit happens. Though am now in a no sex relationship with my boyfriend whom I love, I hope he is nt doing someone else.
1st of all who determines whats too much and whats ok these days..
Personally i've slept wiv 10 men and although i do think its much ..no1 has right to judge another person.. besides abt 7 out of dem r 1 night stands but idc cos i've learnt from it and 2bh i had rather sleep with 10 men than get married and commit adultery or sell my body for material things..so that girl can stfu abt it belongs to sum federal government and sum of u commenting on here i've done worse..its only in nigeria that all these things matter anyway..yet look how corrupted d ppl r..i rest my case
wat of a women with 5 partners and had kissed over 15 men? wat will dat be called
Miss JADE said...No be "private part" again o!
E don turn "public Sector"
Hahahahahaha
Sex should be done when u settle down with your hubby...I dont know what the world is turning into. God help us!
Personally at 24, have had many boyfriends but slept with 5 and i would rather not sleep with any more except my boyfriend and i broke up tomorrow. That said, i think 6 to 10 before age 30 is not promiscuous!!!!
More than one na crowd.
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Shatap! U dis bloody public toilet!
Nigerian!!! Reading through d comments, I see a lot of hypocrites on here..10 men re not too much..av yu tried going to church on sunday and see lot of girls praying seriously for husband.. Pls try asalatu , and yu will see d number of ladies dat av turned into real hajia because of husband..yu may be so lucky dat yu av nt sleept wiv upto 10guyz b4 yu got yur husband.. Some are not that lucky..
another point also, some babes love sex.. We can't blame dem it is Dier nature.. Mostly newly disvirgined babe would wanna try different sizes of cock..
People tlk abt keeping yourself b4 Marriage, do yu think it is easy ni.. Pls try dating a virgin and see how much yu will want her to lose it 4 yu..only if yu av oda babes dat re satisfying yu.. Yu lie to them that yu luv dem and sleep wiv them, d girls too may do it cos of the money or material benefit .
In conclusion, what I am trying to say it dat.. We can't generalize this .. Dere re different reasons why a lady may have slept wiv more than 10 guys.. Thanks
HMMM. IT IS SO EASY FOR EVERYONE TO HAVE AN OPINION ON THIS TOPIC. AS OUR FACES ARE DIFFERENT, SO ARE OUR HEARTS, LIVES AND STORIES!!! ANYONE WHO CLAIMS ONE YARDSTICK IS USED TO MEASURE EVERYONE ON THIS TOPIC, IS CLEARLY NOT ENLIGHTENED. THERE IS NO "RIGHT" NUMBER. TO EACH, HER BLOODY OWN... IF IT IS 1, GOOD FOR YOU.....IF IT IS 100,000,000, GOD FOR YOU. PEOPLE NEED TO GET LIVES REALLY!!!!
one word slut
i wish we could be friends btw im a girl #no homo
Ok I change my mind to call off my wedding! Haba womennnnn.
tchewwhow about the men that sleep with theses women?as far as i am concerned they are all perverts. why does the woman have to be picked on everytime? men sleep around sometimes they sleep with five different girls in a month but when a woman sleeps with just two different men in a year the woman becomes a whore.
God doesnt consider one's gender when judging sin
and no ive only slept with one guy in my life so im not frustrated or anything i just hate gender bias
i hope ur wife cannot imagine u sleeping with up to 10women too..God will judge men specially oo with the way they carry their hypocrisy about.
show me where that is written in d bible. mschew men just like pretending
you just contradicted urself. u are confused oo....so what if they end up not getting married and the same thing happens for like 10times?
The truth of the matter is that, many Nigerian girls use their private part to make money for survival. Many of them provide financial assistant to their families. They go through university with the help of men. Chances are that before they get to the age of 30, they may have slept with 10 or more men.
shut d fuck up! what do we call ur brother then? a man whore or sth worse? he is d one that sleeps with all those girls. He had better repent oo thank God is not gender biased.
good question
who made it that way?
if the men dont sleep with the women will the wimen be called left over food? rubbish it takes two to tango.
thank you. what is good for the goose is good for the gander
im sure u are a woman. i pity you. its true that women are their own worst enemies.
so a man that has slept with over a hundred girls should marry a virgin. what happens to the hundred he slept with.
@ Pealie, why are you touching yourself in your photo?
I have slept with 15 men, inshort i wrote down names before i put up my comment.
most time its not a woman's fault, i vowed to sleep with just a man, i was over 20 before i got disvirgin becaus ei believed the guy that disvirgin me so much that we will get married, but along the way things change and he started misbehavin to the extend of sleeping with "prostitues" just because i left port harcourt to lagos for my school.
i had to leave him and continue, but i have been having so many disspointment, which life goes on.
i just met my guy as the 15th guy, i slept with.
i am not happy about it at all as i see this post, but the truth has to be told.
reading through all these comments. Most women here would be acting like saits here when indeed they have exceeded the number. Even the Linda might just be one of them.......Nigeria is filled with runs girls and and i must tell you that if they really want to be truthful,,,,,you will that 10 is the least they had. I have personally seen a gurl that slept with 4 men at a time in d name of money and she is just 23 driving a flashy car. when she is 30 i wonder how many men she would have serviced........so my point is that nigerian girls these day are wild and pretentious.
Never judge,so that you won't be judged..am 25 and have had 22 men and am not a slut or what ever you name me..I was abused at the age of 10 and believe me I see sex as a relief just bcos I have a very low self esteem which am trying to get over with now...but I thank God for my life cos am not where I used to be..so judge no one cos we are all @ a point in time a victim which made who we are 2day..
Hey,please lemme get the get the question right,is it 10 lovers at once or 10 lovers over a life time,either ways,let's face it and let's be sincere,ladies these days do more than 10 guys over a life time,and a whole lot of ladies now have more than 10 partners.
I live in Lagos,and I have had my fair share of affairs with babes,to me,most girls these days now believe "indiscriminate sex is nothing" I have had phrases like "Pussy no get meter" and that's why an average Lagos girl is willing to trade "SEX for MONEY or PLEASURE"
Linda,believe me,I know girl and stories of babes that well over 10 guys have given testimonial of sleeping with,in some cases,the guys are friends,I have even heard an unconfirmed gist of a girls wedding were all the guys that slept with her in the past sat at a table and the were all dressed in same attire.
To me,I will pardon me girlfriend. If she has slept with 5 guys,in her life,I will take it has the 5 guys were jerks and she was in the grooming and learning process with those 5 guys,but having more than 5 or sleeping with me and 9 other guys will make me question ur integrity,discipline and character,am I safe to marry U?what disease are U carrying that I don't know,if tomorrow I go out shopping with U,how many more guys will start in a corner and point and gist their friends how they slept with U?
Sex is a wonderful thing,I love it,but I am also 1 of the few that believes in doing it with just 1 loved girl or guy.
Sincerely, I really hate it wen pple say a guy is free to av sex wt more dan ten girls and a girl is not,wat's d fuss about and why should dis be a topic anyway? All doz who are criticizing and proving holy should stfu cos wat dey do is even worse dan avin sex. Dia is no difference btw a girl who has had sex wt one guy nd d one who has had wt 10 girls cos both are not virgins. If any of Ɣ'all wanna criticisize should be a catholic sister cos sex is a psychological need dat everyone craves for d degree jus varies.
My friend has been with 10 men....we are both 18
Some of these anonymous posters lambasting other posters for telling it as it is are just been jealous & pained! Who send u msg? did anybody force u 2 turn ur p****y in2 shoprite? wia anybody can stroll in even if they have no intention of buying anything? If u r so dumb that u have indiscriminate sex ( in exchange for money or favour )or so dumb dat men easily take advantage of u (b'coz any guy that truly luv u will never use sex as a prerequisite to marry u so bone dat excuse) blame nobody abeg & keep ur venom 2 urself! You have no excuse 2 have sooo many sexual partners 4 crying out loud!
A lady who started having sex as a teenager is most likely to have 10 or more sex partner by the age of 30, small wonder most Nigerian men would rather marry ladies in their twenties than in their thirties.
Some ladies have uncontrollable desire to have sex, when the opportunity presents itself, they will definitely get laid. I am sure they are ladies who have lost count of the number of men they've slept with before they hit 30.
Lindiway, If a key(man) opens many keys(woman), it is called MASTER KEY. But if a key(woman) is opened by many keys(man)....it is called ASHAWO KEY. Take urself as a key and answer this question. Fertig und Danke noch ein mal.
Sex is for married people, a chiritian one man one woman muslim one man many women that is it
Due to the kind of society we live in, one hardly see a man or woman that sticks to one partner. They exist but the rate of those that double date are higher. So a woman having slept with ten men or more is not the issue but lack of morals in the society . A man that is morally upright will definitely attract a woman with same or similar feature because he knows the purpose of going to relationship (when purpose is not know , abuse becomes inevitable). Linda please post my message. God bless you
I dey read comment here I dey laugh. Truth is when a woman tells you she has done just 2 men, multiply it by 5 you get the real answer.
HYPOCRITES!!!
I slept w 11guys b/4 I got marRied but dated 5 outof of d 11,odas were just casual stuff.
lol 10 plenty oooo..ive not even slept with one let alone 10 chi mooo
i beg ppl should not give us all this lies,once u have slept with more than 1 partner u are guilty as someone that has slept with 100 partners be male or female.Rubbish.
Reimen, ur comment is so so on point, we need to a realist
I weep for this generation. the extent of moral decadence is becoming immeasurable. Unfortunately most bloggers are not helping our youngsters, rather they thrive on publishing articles that further destroys their already damaged perception to life. O God have mercy!
it is well ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Does number really matter? After all a gal who has slept with 20 can still be likened to a gal who has slept with just 7. You can just never tell the difference
Linda how about men,how many ladies have they slept with?lol...
ONEA...
My opinion is this, most and not all the ladies under 30 and are still under 3 or 5 had a rough start with the guys or are still virgins.
If the truth would be told by 30 you might even be on number 20 or so.
No does that make them public, hell to the no. Your pussy has nothing to do with the way you carry yourself or whom u let in there.
The funny thing is that some dude said 2 is too much, as a guy u must have selpt with 20 under the age of 22, so do u think the girls u r screwing for fun aint having the same kind of gun. lol, grow up
Just as ur Dick is public, it needs a pussy to service it init
some of d guys dat are criticizing d girls should b ashamed am sure most guys have slept with more than 30 before they get married but d society won't critcize dat......rubbish
Ahn Ahn!!!!! Badoo *olamide's voice* new fashioned Biko show us the way now badazz with the wide mind..... Itie!!! See your mouth like 10 is nothing...... I'm sure 100 is also nothing to you.... Public dustbin.... Some of you just come on here to ballz... Please be wise you're not growing any younger oo.... Onuku... Mshew
Yawns! Which kin eassy writing be this kwanu?!! Just yes or no.... Not more than 2lines Biko....
..but men are allowe dmultiple partners abi? Such a sexist world we live in
Best comment so far! Thumbs up..
Well said..
having one sef can destroy u and ur generation, talkless of 10. Read dis article on how sex leads to destruction of one's generation http://www.thewordcompass.blogspot.com/2012/11/sex-before-marriage-can-destroy-you-and.html
@Pealie, never liked your big ugly eyes. Thanks for covering them with glasses.
Guys kindly stop posting bullshit.
you men are the cause of all this.
Do you think a normal girl would want to jump from bed to bed? i dont think so. you guys keep messing up women's life. you disvirgin them and abandon them ,knowing fully well this is not what you want.
What do u expect a girl in that situation to do?Go to church and keep praying for you to come back?
Now let me make something clear to all you ladies,their is no set rules on this planet earth. Remember someday we'll be history on this earth, so enjoy your life and try to please God instead of man.
Be yourself, live your life,stay happy(relevant) and be nice to your fellow human beings. Forget how many men you have slept with and do not listen to people who try to bring you down or make you feel less of yourself. Everyone is a child of God and loved by God,no matter the sins youve committed in the past. I hate hypocrites,they turn me off.
I advice every lady to stay focused, go to school or learn a good trade, improve your knowledge and get married and have a family if they will make u happy,otherwise you can also find happiness being alone too.(no be must to marry).Tomorrow is unknown(i'm on this planet earth to please God and not man, so i sleep with hundren men, na me and God judgement)
Terrible things are happening in this our generation, people are dying, people are infected with HIV/AIDS(majority,married men and later they infect their wives) so please stop counting rubbish and leave a wonderful life women.
Stay blessed.
U must be a loser then!
You're really a fool.its your type that peddles STD.all you wanted to do in the first place was to staff n go.now you're using her sincerity as an excuse....male whore.maybe when your daughter has 19 abortions at 25 then you will understand karma n that she's a batch.besides who told u and what makes you believe that a woman cannot have her. 1st sex at 24 or even on your marriage bed and end up havin a history of 13 partners the next year
am not saying that a woman should sleep with about 10 guys but guys should also keep themselves too and not sleep with every woman. but sometimes before you get to see the right one it takes time. lol i think yall should stay celibate till its time to marry.
Na why your name be Israel.go back to ur high mountain of Jerusalem rather than to come this blog they form.oniranu.peddler of thrash
Sweetheart go and get tested for stds if u haven't already. Even for a man 100 is surely too much!
It is only a topic on sex that can generate this raft of comments. I can bet my bottom dollar that 80% of the commentators here have had no fewer than ten sex partners.
It is only a topic on sex that can generate this raft of comments. I can bet my bottom dollar that 80% of the commentators here have had no fewer than ten sex partners.
All these ugly people will come here and start preaching and condemning...its not your fault, you're just grateful you even found one sef!!
Back to topic, it obviously depends on how old she is and obviously how far apart they are, 10 in two months...uhh yeah, a bit much.
You're so right.so very.i as a girl had jus two till date.den on gal that used to talk so much about virginity but cud snuggle up to various guys lost it.before a week,she had done 3.before a month,7.dunno about now....cos iv lost contact with her.in essence,it's not about how many,technically but the mindset...
Some women of God have had so many,yet today they are inspiration to other women.
Will we be judged by our past.even though the lord of hosts doesn't look into our past but our hearts and future.
Who then is man to judge us.
Do you realise how many sexual partners Mary magdalen or the Samaritan woman had?yet they turned to Jesus and he visited thier hearts.they were never the same
Why do people try to make excuses for something they know is definitely wrong. Ideally 1 should be enough, but realistically people go through relationships because of on thing or the other and for the most part most girls hope that the one they are with is the one, until something happens and the relationship kicks the bucket. So it is understandable that a girl would have gone through multiple men before marriage. That being said, except you are having one night stands and stuff, how in the world having been in relationships with 10+ men, ever tried being alone, getting to know you? Seriously ladies, after the 2nd - 3rd relationship didn't work out, take time out and do some self/ soul searching cause it might just be that u are making the same mistakes over and over again, I mean do u really need someone to validate you that bad. Relationships are hard work, its difficult going through one relationship, talk more of 10, seriously ladies, stop wasting your energy with the ritual. This is why most girls have no personality, u become ur husband's puppet because you never took time out to find yourself, instead u went from one relationship to another. This is for those that 10+ sex partners are due to relationships, but it your 10+ sex partners are becos of one night stands and friends with benefit, sorry girl call a spade a spade, its not being judgmental its stating the fact, you are a slut. Yes to each her own but you also have to be honest and tell yourself the truth, your own na ashowo levels!
As funny as that tweet might seem, I do agree with it, condoms are not 100% people so safe sex or not AIDS is real and people can be wicked, so better be safe than sorry!
one is more than enough just perfect! biko.....10 is def a prostitute e nd off
My comment goes to all the men. In what way have you helped ur gfs not to sleep with more than 10 men? When u men keep insisting on sex as a prerequisite in sustaining every r/ship, y wont women have more than 10 lovers? I am 32 and have never had sex. All my previous r/ships ended becoz the men wldnt wait to get sex after they had put a ring on it. My two cents is that if u are a man, u got no business judging any woman. As for the women, to each his own.
Ok lets be frank here, IF A MAN HAS SMASHED MORE THAN 20 THEN A WOMAN CAN. THERE SHUD BE NO....A WOMAN CANT SMASH MORE THAN 10. ETC. MY LOVELY TWO CENTS
10 is not too much..a female colleague(@ the office) gave it to me and about 15 more
Linda please help me ask LIBgers. I want to get marry but i probably want to get marry to a virgin. Please i want to know the benefit of marrying a virgin girl/lady or woman. As my friends over here are adversing me never to try marry a virgin.
Lmaooooo!! U crazy, gurl!!!
See ur lifee!!
you are very stupid with that your comment. i am 35 and about to get married.the guy i am getting married to is the third guy i have ever slept with in my life. this is because i choose carefully who have access to my private part.
For all those girls saying anything above 2 or 3 is too much, please search yourselves very well; you may have just been very lucky with relationships and shouldn't judge others who aren't so lucky. Just like someone mentioned, boys of these days such players and they have mastered the art of deceiving girls (who we all know are more emotional).
Assuming a girl first had sex at 18, by the time she is 30, 12years would have gone bye. Although I quite agree that '10 partners' is a disturbing figure (when heard) but I do not think it necessarily makes the girl an automatic whore. REMEMBER IT IS NOT 10 GUYS AT ONCE BUT RATHER 10 GUYS OVER A PERIOD OF 12 YEARS. Finally, it all depends on the girl's circumstances and I believe every girl should be judged on a case by case basis.
Hehehehe!! I gbadun ur analogy!
I believe linda is using a topic like dis to create traffic on her site n she's making more millions.... 10 or 100 ..... Its rili no ones business.... Those of em sayn deyve had just 2 partners n dey r married end up cheatn on dier husbands which i find mre disgusting.....
Apparently you dont know Nigerian Woman. They are say 10 is too much, i can stake my money that above 50 percent have slept with more than 10.
10 guys is the average for some girls/women and thats just per year. Some do 20 a year. Women have multiple partners these days just as much as men do. Trust me. To think otherwise would be naive!!
Ur head dey there, Prince Charming.. However, this can be avoided if one avoids premarital sex, though difficult.
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